From the author: Darkside of the Moon...Irresponsibility has many forms and many roots. This also includes forgetfulness (unconscious running away and pointing to other internal, much stronger interests and priorities), and avoidance of responsibility (may be in both conscious and unconscious versions), and lack of initiative (most likely due to fear of punishment or due to the presence of someone nearby in a dominant role), and ignoring (direct opposition of oneself to the framework and obligations due to a variety of reasons), and suicide, and leapfrog in relationships, activities, interests, etc., etc. It is a common statement that responsibility is a sign of a mature personality, a sign of growing up. And irresponsibility is, accordingly, a sign of not growing up. A sign that the inner child has crushed under itself all aspects of a person’s internal psychic reality - both the inner man, the inner woman and the inner “I”. Thus, an interesting picture is obtained - external irresponsibility is accompanied by an inner child dominating in the inner psychic reality. The inner child controls the inner reality, and on the outside, it seems like he has given control to anyone who wants to control. But for some reason you want to cultivate responsibility in yourself. Or, to be more precise, those around you - parents, bosses, friends/girlfriends, husband/wife - and even, Surely, your psychologist says that: “You need to cultivate responsibility in yourself. This will solve your problems...” And, on the other hand, what will happen? - As soon as a person cultivates responsibility in himself, grows up, then someone else will immediately appear next to him - someone who “for some reason” will need to be controlled. A responsible controller must find a use for himself! And here, suddenly, a revolution in reality - that other uncontrolled one, in fact, begins to control you. How so? Yes, it’s very simple - it will constantly attract attention to itself, will not let go, will not let you relax - you, the “matured” and for some time already fully responsible controller. Miracles on turns, and that’s all!)) And now, being in the position of an unconscious inner child, you know this within yourself very well!)) And why do you need this responsibility?? Are you really still going to cultivate it in yourself??!) )) Well, okay.) Option 1 is extremely harsh. In this approach, non-alternative methods are very effective. What is called - burn bridges and ships, pan or perish, not a step back, there is nowhere to retreat, let go of the branch (bough) on which you are sitting (hanging). popular video - Option 2 - very "disgusting". You are not doing anything against your inner child. On the contrary, you send all the controllers to hell. Everyone - parents, bosses, boyfriends/girlfriends, husband/wife - and even your psychologist. You quit your job, stop making money, have fun without looking back, stick your fingers in a socket, jump off a cliff, leave home, are left alone... And as soon as this happens - and there is no one else to control you, you are now alone - alone - then you either manage to stop at the edge. And so he, the internal controller, woke up on his own! Or you go overboard - again, taking responsibility for this step upon yourself. Option 3 is balanced. You do nothing at all. And you watch yourself and everything that happens around you from the outside. From the position of an outside observer. And you understand that none of the extremes in the “irresponsibility-control” pair has independent value. And all this is the Big Game, in which everything is unforgettable, enchanting and self-sufficient - exactly as long as the Big Game itself lasts. Which is your Life. If you liked my article, I will be grateful for your comments and likes.) ) Good luck to you in the Big Game!))