In a happy relationship, a man often says, “With her, I felt like a real man.” She, despite the lack of model beauty, became his “real woman.” Milo smiles over his shoulder and endlessly believes in his abilities. He, in turn, does everything to worthily bear the title of “the best man in the world.” Not about you? Fine. Let's take a look at another apartment. This “man on the couch” was told yesterday that he was lazy and a simpleton. This morning they started nagging him for his “terrible habits”, and tomorrow he will face a headache due to lack of money. It is not surprising that he fulfills his “husband’s duties” by no more than five percent. He ignores his wife's wishes and requests. Initially, with her attitude and behavior, she “weeds out” in him even the slightest desire to please and protect her. Sad? Think about when it’s easier and easier for you to fulfill someone’s request: when people admire you and talk about your extraordinary abilities, or when they express doubts and criticize you? That's the same... Your thoughts and words can work wonders. Try to tell a man, even if he is completely...well, very far from the image of a “hero,” that he is powerful, smart and handsome. He will immediately take out his “knight’s armor”, turn his shoulders and stand a couple of centimeters taller. Say that “he can do anything” and he “can do anything”! Don't believe me? Look through the biographies of great people: Vera Muromtseva-Bunina was the wife of Ivan Alekseevich Bunin, and these words are addressed to her: “Without you, I would not have written anything. I would have disappeared!” Mercedes Barcha Pardo, the wife of the legendary Nobel laureate Gabriel García Márquez, did not nagging her husband, but managed as best she could with her two sons. To feed the children, she sold “unnecessary things” and did everything so that nothing would bother her husband. As a result, Marquez became a great writer. Clementine Churchill, the wife of the well-known British Prime Minister, accepted him with all the habits that were not the most convenient for living together: a love of whiskey, cigars, gluttony and gambling. She herself had a bright personality, but at the same time she never put pressure on her husband. Winston Churchill himself considered marriage the happiest and most joyful event of his entire life. Anna Ford was not afraid to marry a young mechanic with a salary of eleven dollars a week. She held a kerosene lamp over his head for several hours while her husband invented a new type of engine. Henry Ford later said that if life were to repeat itself, he was ready to be anyone, but “if only my wife was next to me.” So, we found out that your words, thoughts, behavior create the life you want. If you want a “lazy male body” next to you, tell him about it more often. If you want to live with a strong, energetic and successful man, then you need to have the right mindset. Grab a pen, paper, or sit near your computer. We will put everything in its place. Just 3 steps! Step #1. Write down what qualities of your man arouse your admiration or, in other words, what prevents you from doubting his masculinity. To get started, write at least 5-10 points. (If there are no such people, then ask yourself why you are “killing time” next to such a person?) Let's hope that everything is in order with you and move on to step No. 2. Step #2. Remember and describe three situations in which he most clearly demonstrated these qualities. It doesn’t matter when it happened, but it is important that it happened with your participation. Write what you felt at that moment? How did you realize that you were next to a man with a capital M? Truthfulness is welcomed with the most sincere admiration. Step #3. Your story is an ode “about the feat of your hero.” Always keep it in your head. Let the feelings of pride, euphoria and faith in his strength never leave you and become the constant background of your relationship. Remember the state when you were overwhelmed with happiness from the thought that this person chose you and is ready to do great deeds for your sake. He's a hero! He is the best, the strongest,.