(excerpt from the book: “Where does childhood go?”) First, you need to stop adapting children to the existing way of things and start focusing on supporting the differences of each child from others. Similarity has already been transmitted hereditarily and this is enough, the rest is a matter of evolution, the essence of which is the search for originality in every creature. If you notice their sincere joy in children and support it, then you can very quickly, for example, create amazing conditions for children who love sports to develop dexterity , and for children who love silence and reflection, it will be possible to organize entire initiation schools and so on. The recipe for all childhood illnesses has always been simple - to support what the child is sincerely passionate about. You need to look very hard at what the child really loves, because it is really very difficult to see it through birth blinders. If you cannot do this within the family, then invite only wise specialists, because otherwise “specialists” can only aggravate the situation. Children themselves grow stronger when they are not prevented from growing, where they are boldly allowed to speak from their ideas and if they are listened to, then the chances of their special path being revealed increase. We must also take into account that children are not a white sheet of paper, which is why, on the scale of the soul, everyone is equal in age. After all, we all come from great nature and we all came here to be happy. Let children talk about their happiness in life, otherwise illnesses will do it. It is extremely important to bring labor pain to the surface, because many children carry it in very large volumes. Do this regularly, and it will be much easier for you and your children to breathe, and it is best to do this before children are born. You need to literally educate your family, this will help not only your child, but also all children in subsequent generations. It is scary to see children who do not know where to pour out the pain of their ancestors. Tanks can still roar in children, and some children grow old from such horror already in childhood. You need to love your children very much because only love opens your eyes to the reasons for their congenital diagnoses. It is imperative to keep a book of the child’s life. It should be noted that he liked it very much when he was little. Because in adolescence, the issue of self-determination is very important, because vocation is not an empty phrase - it is absolutely the most important thing that parents can give to a child. From this, children have the highest health before their fate. The main thing is to maintain passion, this is the highest goal of parents. This is the best cure for all illnesses because the soul of such a child becomes joyful and courageous and forms its own vision of the future, from this a natural appetite for learning appears. As a result, this forms a love for life itself, which excludes the further formation of addictions. If there is no semantic filling in the family, then this leads to the fact that children grow up literally blind and also literally disappear in the middle of their days, becoming eternally problematic. If this happens to an entire country, then social upheaval is inevitable. Children who do not have noble guidelines are 100% at risk of reckless actions throughout their lives. Living blindly and raising the blind at the state level is like planning a national disaster. But once the family recovers from the nonsense, the harvest of talent becomes a reward for the family and new children strengthen the focus on life and will bring great benefits to society by making it thus stronger and safer. Then the power in the country itself becomes honest. If children see their parents serving the world, then they want to listen to their every word, especially if before their parents there were parents who did the same thing, this is how well-being increases in families from generation to generation, youth and beauty, along with wisdom, grasp of life and healthy positivism. In such families, because of the innate clarity of mind, children themselves find their great work in life. The work of life is the most universal