In 99.9% of cases, infidelity in marriage indicates the unmet needs of the husband. Not receiving something in the family, he looks for it on the side. Not every family is able to overcome betrayal. Therefore, it is easier to deal with marital relationships at the first “bells” of dissatisfaction than to subject your marriage to such a test. In the program “Weather in the House. Love,” the girls and I examine in detail the topic of the needs of a husband and wife in marriage. We evaluate whether all needs are satisfied, what is missing, how to give the husband what he wants and get values ​​for himself. If all the needs in marriage are satisfied for both spouses, then they consider each other irresistible. In such a family, no betrayal is scary. In this post, I divided the needs for men and women, and also divided them into related pairs for convenience. See what you want and what to give your partner to get what you want. I hope I explained it clearly. Honesty and attractiveness A woman trusts a man completely; honesty and openness are important to us. Therefore, as soon as he notices a lie, even in small things, the marriage begins to crack. A woman instinctively feels unsafe next to this man. Men have a strong need for female attractiveness. They often admit that it is difficult to love only for spiritual qualities, “it is important that the wife is pleasant and neat” - a quote from one of them. Tenderness and sex A woman is pleased when a man shows tenderness - hugs, holds hands, kisses and gives flowers. It's so nice, right girls? Men have a great need for sexual satisfaction. If a man does not show affection and tenderness, the woman refuses intimacy. The rule also applies vice versa. Conversations and relaxation Women have a very great need for a man to listen to her and react emotionally to what his wife shares. During the candy bouquet period, couples talk a lot, the man shows interest in the woman’s words. And a man expects a woman to become a partner for recreation and entertainment. Often, before marriage, women are happy to get involved in partner entertainment: go fishing, watch football, etc. The strongest couples most often mention this in their interviews, that joint leisure reliably holds the marriage together. Find a hobby and compromise where your husband will relax and you will talk. Being a good father and admiration It is important for a woman that a man be a good father to his children. Not just a good father, but an example to follow. It is important for a wife to see her beloved child in the hands of her beloved man. A man needs admiration. A man wants to be proud of himself. Admiration should be distinguished from evaluations. “You’re great, you’re cool, you’re the best” is an assessment. Admiration can be expressed through the feeling that a man’s behavior evokes in a woman. For example, “I am happy when I see your achievements,” “I am pleased when you are beautifully dressed.” The most important thing is that you need to admire sincerely, even if it is something small and insignificant, but something that evokes true positive emotions. Safety and comfort It is important for a woman to feel safe; in the modern world, this feeling is provided by the sufficient amount that the husband earns. I understand that there is always not enough money, but each of us has basic needs. I want to be confident in the future and my man. Men need home comfort. The need for this is so high that I will now tell you a typical male fantasy: A husband comes home, where his wife greets him with a kiss, and his children greet him with joy. The children are neat and well behaved, they do not shout and the house is in order. The wife gives her husband time to catch his breath and relax before dinner, after which the family goes out for a walk or engages in some common hobby. The children quietly go to bed, and the husband and wife watch a little TV, discuss current affairs, intimacy and sleep. Women can laugh at this scenario; real life constantly brings surprises. But he strives for this, it’s worth it. Try to implement this scenario in..