Whether to save a marriage is a difficult question, but if such a question arises, it means a lot has already “broken” and changed. When a person thinks about whether to save a marriage or get a divorce, this means that he is actually ready to get a divorce, but is looking for some “excuses” for his partner and is simply looking for the “need” of marriage. But asking for advice is useless; only you can decide for yourself whether to save the marriage or not. However, a few recommendations can still be given. Firstly, admit to yourself honestly that you no longer find “pros” in marriage and that is why you are “forcing” yourself to think: is it necessary to save the marriage. Secondly, there are a lot of “against” and it is precisely these “cons” that prevent you from even trying to save what is left. Now, essentially, there is no escape, marriage is a family and therefore you will have to weigh not only what is good for you personally, but also what is good or bad for others, namely other family members. The issue of divorce is especially difficult if there are children in the family, and even those who are not adults. For children, mom and dad remain the same today, even if mom and dad themselves hate each other. Now there’s another important digression if you are the initiator of the divorce, i.e. you are thinking about it - this is one situation, but if your partner is talking about divorce, then the situation of “saving the marriage” is completely different. Your position regarding your own dissatisfaction with the marriage is clear to you, there are reasons and you know them. If your partner is talking about divorce, then this may be a complete surprise for you, which means that it is much more difficult to understand HOW and most importantly WHY to save the marriage. Now again, to the point, let’s start with the fact that you have accumulated enough claims and dissatisfaction towards your partner and more and more often you are thinking about divorce. I’ll be honest: if enough had accumulated, you would have gotten a divorce. If you have accumulated enough, but you are thinking about staying married or not, then the question is: living space/car, finances, children, public opinion... Only lawyers can advise how to solve these particular issues, if the issue concerns legality and order, and everything that concerns the soul, there can be no advisers here. Now about the situation when your partner somehow hints at divorce. If you know the reason (new love, for example), then think about whether it’s worth keeping close to a person who has fallen passionately in love? Will it be beneficial for you, your children, etc. Unless, of course, the matter concerns only real estate or other property. If the reason is not completely clear to you, then you should think about saving the marriage and figure out what’s going on, talk to your partner, analyze your behavior and his, and perhaps consult a psychologist for advice. The main advice I’ll still give is don’t cut with passion, do not make hasty decisions in anger. Whether to save a marriage or not is a very important question, and the answer to it must be found in a calm state of mind, having weighed all the pros and cons».