Uncertainty and the unknown are the most painful sensations. Sometimes it seems that even if I find out the worst, I will know for sure, and not be lost in conjecture. This is a completely natural desire - to know the truth. But, firstly, it is not always feasible, and secondly, is the desire for truth always justified from the point of view of real application and does it not pose problems. And now about suspicions of treason. If the relationship is just beginning, and your a man is already giving cause for concern - he disappears, is late, pays more attention to other girls than you think possible, and does it in such a way that you notice it and it’s unpleasant for you, then you should take a step back, slow down. If he is interested in you, then he may well reorient himself and give up his bachelor habits. By slowing down, you will simply show him how not to treat you. He'll accept it, great. Will not accept... Learn to “weed out” unreliable men in the early stages of a relationship. There is no need to dive into them further if something tells you that it will not be comfortable. And now about suspicion of infidelity in marriage. This is a completely different conversation. More and more often there are wives who follow their husbands, thinking that in this way they control the situation. And I will be grateful if those readers who consider this necessary explain to me the logic of their actions. If there are any omissions, lack of attention from your husband, loss of interest, then “present” to him what you have, what you feel. Discuss, look for options to bring newness and trust back into the relationship, ask if there is something about you that doesn’t suit him, and work on the relationship. There is a good phrase “if something seems to you, then it doesn’t seem to you.” If something doesn’t suit you, then this is a reason to discuss, look for options to fix it, or even set conditions - I won’t tolerate this anymore, let’s either figure it out and change it, or break up. If you’re not happy with the relationship, then why look for an additional reason ? They no longer suit you. Or, if he does not cheat, but simply behaves disgustingly towards you, then are you ready to endure it? If only he wouldn’t cheat? The second option is if everything is fine in the relationship, but it seems to you that he’s cheating, we’ll look at it in the next article, “What if he cheats?”?».