I don't consider myself a purely supportive therapist. I am an active therapist. It can be difficult to notice your resources on your own and turn to them for support. Therefore, it is very important for me to feel the point at which the client’s energy is located and to join this energy in order to be together, to give the person the opportunity to get used to being in this flow. When I notice that the client is coping, realizes where he is now, that he can independently decide how to behave and where to go, I move away, continuing to be close. I accompany when necessary, and then give the opportunity to feel complete freedom from interaction with reality, as with an element that needs to be defeated. There are no ready-made answers, there is no right or wrong decision. The decision that has to be made here and now will be that conscious choice that is determined by previous experience, and the conclusions made precisely thanks to it as a result of joint work. This is how my sessions with clients go. For me, fundamental is not the search for ways to improve interaction with the surrounding reality. And developing the skill of feeling like a winner with any satisfying results. To do this, you need to be able to work with a deficit of states and correct what is in excess. This process reminds me of an upgrade - improving or replacing components to update outdated components. Another version of yourself may surprise you. Invisible children of our alienated parents, we sometimes have difficulty imagining how it is possible to be visible and do not bother ourselves with such “pampering.” But if, every time problems arise, we return to our conflicting parts for negotiations, then you can see how the ability to gradually develop accepting our qualities that were hidden, giving way to those lined up like in a parade, which show us only from the best, convenient and attractive side. But the real, living and unpredictable we remained for a long time unrecognized, elusive images in the labyrinth of our consciousness. And only when we find ourselves at the point of perceiving ourselves as valuelessly accepted here and now, having carefully studied the entire set of qualities inherited from our family systems, can we improve ourselves and invest the necessary strength and energy in our personal development. As much as will be needed for the recovery process and maintaining a happy, fulfilling life. Without fear of hearing words of reproach, envy or irritation. Winners are not judged! If you have a desire to change but you don’t know how to implement it, I invite you to get acquainted and cooperate. T. 89636324465