... I can’t live without him, but I’m silent, I curse him, but I want to, I hate him, but I love him... (again words from the song) If you mix all the components in one proportion or another, the result will be As a result, the emotional brew is quite similar to love, but... with a specific flavor that distinguishes it from true feelings. Obsession and indiscriminateness in the desire to be loved by EVERYONE. Insatiability and obsession with feelings. The lack of depth of feeling is “paid off” by its turbulence - suspicion, persecution, demonstrative scenes of jealousy, ignoring the needs and desires of the partner. Dependence on the constant presence of the partner. Forced separation or loneliness is experienced as abandonment and rejection, therefore, gaining confidence, tranquility and protection is possible only in the presence of the “object of love”. The requirement for unconditional, exclusive, sole love and devotion of a partner, as well as sacrifice, forgiveness, readiness for the sake of love is failure to fulfill tantamount to betrayal. Fascination not with the whole person and his inner world, but with some part (wrist, neck) or external attributes (car, money, police uniform, nurse). The rest of the personality is perceived as an insignificant annex.