Have you noticed how diverse women are? Each is unique and beautiful in its own way. Some women seduce with their inner beauty, energy, outlook on life, kindness, and ability to be close and tender. Others are attracted by their bold views on life, risk in manifestation, career success, competition with men and unknown strength. There are also those women who find it difficult to feel like a woman.✔It is difficult to answer the question - who am I, what am I?✔My own sexuality is dangerous or disgusting (overweight, “masculine” physique).✔Female bisexuality.✔Reluctance to have children.✔Hatred of men.✔Desire to have nothing to do with the female line of your family.✔Denial of differences between men and women. Femininity is about body. Feminine is something internal, invisible and causing anxiety and excitement in both men and women. What influences a girl so much that in adulthood, having become a woman, she does not feel or recognize herself as such? In history such a girl will be subject to violence, incest and beatings. Or, parents will exercise excessive power over their daughter's body. Mom shows too much interest in her daughter’s body, makes her look special, follows diets, and sends her for operations. The girl's embarrassment to change clothes in front of her mother/grandmother/father is ridiculed. “My breasts have grown, have they become adults?” Discussion of a girl's changing body at family dinners. The girl has to endure all this and... keep quiet. She separates herself from her body. Your essence, your desires, your own emotions. The body becomes the subject of attack, criticism, violence, disgust, shame and pain. Growing up, a woman continues to treat her body and herself the way she was treated when she was a little girl. Because the body, which has attracted so much offensive and traumatic attention, is still perceived as not one’s own. Femininity and sexuality are locked up. Everything feminine is denied. It seems safer this way, but dissatisfaction with oneself, life, people, and the world accumulates. The energy of life is aimed at restraining and suppressing desires and needs, and not at developing and achieving pleasure. I invite women to a face-to-face group in Surgut