If you are unlucky and you come across a Man, then my recommendations will help turn him into a “normal”, comfortable, flexible man of the middle sex. In everything, be guided by the principle “If not me, then who?” . Let this principle apply to making money, household chores, raising children, making decisions, asking questions to a sales consultant, making a fire, etc. Start being the only (or main) money earner in the family. Prove to the man that you are right. It feels so good to be right. Consider him incapable (low potency) of coping with: troubles at work, a crisis in business, a conflict with partners, raising his own child, hunger, etc. Immediately rush to save him. Treat sex as an unpleasant, but integral part of family life. Give it to your husband upon request. Command the man. Forbid him from: thinking and doing differently from you, having friends you don’t like, hobbies you don’t share, such as fishing or football. You don’t care, you all know what’s best for him. Make sure he eats, doesn’t drink too much when out, gets everything ready for work, takes his license, doesn’t forget the keys to the house, calls his mom, etc. Let him know that he is not yet capable of taking responsibility for his actions, and is too weak to face the consequences of his mistakes. Speak of your man as a pathetic, mentally retarded creature who will certainly perish without you. It’s nice for you to think so. Never show him that it’s difficult, painful, complicated, unbearable for you. He is a fragile creature who finds it difficult to bear your experiences. Complain to your girlfriend about the complexity of your life, but never to your man. Don’t ask him for help. Let him know that there is a strong woman next to him, whom he can always rely on and who will cope with everything. Make yourself the only and irreplaceable one, without whom he will be lost, will not find food in the refrigerator, will not dial the telephone number of the clinic, will not buy clothes for himself (he will not knows the size), won’t know what to tell the boss, won’t take an antipyretic, won’t know where the toilet paper is in the house, will forget his mother’s birthday. Forget about tenderness and softness, tears and weakness. Finally, be a man. Because if not you, then who? Sincerely, Yulia Minakova. For those who do not want to re-educate, instruct, save, but want to enjoy relationships - a mini-book “Five steps to relationships that bring pleasure”"