Verbal signals that indicate a lie Recording nonverbal signals and psychophysiological manifestations alone is not enough to determine how sincere our interlocutor is. In addition to directly observing a person’s behavior, it is also important how attentive we are to his statements. Here we mean not only the semantic content of a particular message, but the nature and direction of the information that we receive. So, if during communication the interlocutor abuses the following expressions, we should be careful in our conclusions and be quite attentive.1. If our interlocutor avoids explaining any specific facts, refers to a lack of information, provided that these topics and questions are not ones that cause unpleasant feelings and memories in him. Examples: · I don’t want to talk about it... · I can’t remember something...· I don’t see the point in this discussion...· I don’t even know how to answer this question...· Don’t ask me such stupid questions...· I didn’t suspect that you think about me that way...2. The partner extremely persistently and stubbornly emphasizes his honesty, repeats this in the absence of visible reasons, insists on our confirmation that we believe him. Examples: · I swear to you the health of my children, parents... · May I fail in this place if I lie... · You must, you just must believe me...· It's as true as...· I swear to God, I'm telling the truth, believe me, you can't help but believe...· You can't doubt that I'm telling the truth, I you I know that you are always for justice... It was not for nothing that the eastern sages said: “You said it once - I believed it, you repeated it, and I doubted it, you said it a third time, and I realized that you were lying.”3. Our interlocutor is trying to arouse our sympathy, trust, pity, referring to facts that previously had no meaning, trying to win us over, although the relationship never implied special closeness. Examples: · You know, I’m an honest person... · You you know me like no one else, I am not capable of deceiving... · Well, someone, but so that I... · I have the same problems as you, but so... · Someone, and you will understand me, I’m sure... 4. The interlocutor shows unreasonable rudeness, straightforwardness, emphasizes the impossibility of questioning his words, is hostile for no apparent reason that could cause him aggression or discontent. Examples: · Yes, I don’t have to answer you anything at all! · You know what! · Yes how could you think, aren’t you ashamed!?· I don’t even want to talk to you after this!· What you say infuriates me, I’m outraged to the core!· You would treat me like that, but I won’t allow it such..!· Do you think you are so smart, you can do anything!?5. The partner uses evasive answers that do not carry any specific information, without explaining anything and without answering our question. Examples: · You see, everything is as I said... · I knew it... · Do you respect me? · Yes, you are a person serious... · I'm not at all sure about this…