Every married couple at some stage overcomes crises, but not every one of them is able to cope with them. It is simpler and easier to simply destroy a family than to try to resolve the disagreements that have arisen. But if you want to save the relationship, then you should take action. True, it is difficult to propose a single plan of action in this matter, since each family is individual, and the reasons for disagreements are different. In this article I want to offer you some tips that will help you save family relationships, or at least try to do so. The recommendations are addressed more to women, but will also be useful to men. Every person expects that he will find his happiness after meeting his soulmate. But in those moments when a crisis is brewing, a person thinks that he made a mistake in his choice, begins to look for the other half, but everything repeats itself again. According to psychologists, every person deserves the other half that he has. So it turns out that as much as a person invested, he received the same amount, so it’s difficult to expect love from your partner if you don’t give it yourself. There is a truth according to which in family relationships a lot depends on the woman, since she is wise, patient, self-possessed, and able to smooth out conflicts. However, we should not forget about the male role. It is true that thanks to a woman, a family can go through many difficult periods. If there are children in the family, then only a woman can turn the situation around so that conflicts do not affect them. A woman should try to maintain a respectful attitude towards a man, even if it begins to seem that he is not worthy of it. You should not speak badly about your spouse in the presence of your children, and you should not forbid the father to see his children. You should not quarrel and criticize each other in front of your children. I suggest you consider several recommendations that will help you save your relationship if discord has already begun. Don’t threaten to break up It should be accepted as a fact that conflicts and crises cannot be avoided in a family, but even they can benefit the relationship. Sometimes the appearance of a lover in the life of one of the spouses will bring family relationships to a new stage of development. It is clear that it is difficult to be calm and self-possessed when conflicts and quarrels begin in the family, but a woman can do this. It is important to remember that during this period you should not intimidate each other by leaving home or blaming each other for the fact that your partner no longer loves you. Any difficult stage in life passes, and then happy moments come, so leaving the family is not the best way to solve problems that have arisen disagreements. This may not become a solution to the problem, but a habit, and then in subsequent relationships you will make similar mistakes. Remain an individual. Learn not to dissolve in your partner, since no one has yet appreciated sacrifice. In addition, not everyone can withstand constant control over their significant other. Each person should have his own friends, interests and hobbies; there is no need to sacrifice them in favor of his spouse. If the relationship goes downhill, don’t try to blame, try to improve yourself. Hold the bar It is important to always remain a woman in any situation. Many men like to have a beautiful wife next to them, this has a great effect on their self-esteem. A woman should always be in shape to please everyone. Then the man will be afraid that he may lose you. But you shouldn’t constantly ask a man to evaluate your appearance, as this can provoke the opposite result. There should be moderation in everything, remember this. Talk to the man Many family conflicts could be avoided if partners spoke in a timely manner about what worries them most. As psychologists advise, married couples should talk to each other more often, discussing at least three topics a day. You should also talk about what does not suit one of the spouses; you should not hide your resentment