adaptation is a complex mechanism of adaptation to new living conditions. 🎈introduce new conditions of LIFE. When, after a difficult situation in the family, I worked as both a psychologist and a teacher in a nursery, there was only one child in my group who had difficulty adapting, because the parents listened to advice. 😎‼ Do not idealize kindergarten under any circumstances! Yes, there are a lot of toys and children there, but there is a time when the children play with the teacher, eat and then the toys rest. Yes, there are a lot of children there, but you need to share them with them. Try not to send your child to kindergarten when there is a crisis in the family, a divorce, when the three-year-old crisis is in full swing. You should also start visiting kindergarten when the child is absolutely healthy✅a few days before kindergarten, walk with your child past the kindergarten and tell him about the children who play together, who listen to the teacher, walk hand in hand together... You can talk to the child, who has been going to kindergarten for a long time with his baby so that he can hear the answers. It is advisable to then praise him and say that he is already big and well done, goes to kindergarten. Play with your child and the available kindergarten toys. Be the teacher, and the child be the “children.” Show your child the routine moments. Sit all the “children” at the tables to eat, and then on the potty, then collect the toys outside, and then play up the arrival of mom! The child in the game will understand what kindergarten is. You can change roles, let your child be the teacher, and you the “children.” It is also important that the daily routine be the same as in the kindergarten. Also at home, organize waking up, breakfast, lunch, and naps according to the kindergarten schedule. It will be easier for the child here.✅First day in kindergarten. Nowadays in kindergartens it is customary to gradually accustom a child. On the first day, take your baby for a walk with the children, stand nearby, but do not get involved in the game until the child asks. See for yourself how your baby interacts with others on the playground. Naturally, after such an unusual walk, emotionally charged, tell us how great it is to play together like this. On the way to the garden, voice out what you see “the tree at the entrance to the garden 🌲 is large, and on the left there is a bench on which you can sit... just around the bend there is a path, and there's a court" this action makes the road 🏡familiar. What to compare with... Imagine that in a beauty salon they silently lead you somewhere, do something to your hair, face... Now imagine that they tell you: “Now we’ll go to the hairdresser, they’ll cut your hair and they’ll put you in bed, then we’ll go to a cosmetologist and he’ll do a cleansing for you...” True, the first option is more alarming. 😁✅Second and third day. Bring your child to kindergarten after breakfast and pick him up approximately two hours later. Color your arrival and praise the child, be interested in what he did, that his mother is leaving and he will miss her. A difficult separation begins. It is important not to command the child “I have to go to work” (and the child has the idea that his mother exchanged him for some job) “stop crying, look, other children don’t cry” Here it is important to support the child, voice his emotion, desire “ You don’t want to go to kindergarten, I’ll come for you soon, give me a kiss.” Gippenreiter to help. Farewell should not be long, but as a ritual, for example, a kiss on the cheek and a toy taken from home should be present. Often after a parent leaves, children immediately calm down and play games or interact with others. If parting with the mother is very difficult, then let the child be taken to kindergarten by a less significant person from the family, for example, a grandmother or aunt, it will be easier for the child to part with them. If a parent has anxiety about leaving the baby in kindergarten, then it is transmitted to to kid. 😕How to remove it? Try, again, to play with your child in kindergarten; in the game you can see the behavior of the teacher if the child is given this role. Also, in the game you can see the reasons for not wanting to go to kindergarten. Play them in a positive way. You can draw a kindergarten with an older child.✅After kindergarten, it is advisable to hug and 😘