Intimacy can be both attractive and frightening. Two people meet one day and become interested in each other. Everyone has their own story of how this happens. Relationships can be easy or go through obstacles. Mutual feelings usually help overcome difficulties. True, sometimes one of the partners falls in love with the other so much that he is very afraid of losing him. Then he may unconsciously begin to move away from his loved one and, with his behavior, push his partner away from him. At this moment, the following thoughts may arise in an insecure person: 1. Suddenly something bad happens. 2. Maybe he/she will stop loving me and leave me. 3. One day I will be left alone and it will hurt me a lot. 4. I don't deserve this person's love. These thoughts cause anxiety, sadness, self-disappointment, apathy, feelings of hopelessness, feelings of helplessness and desperate loneliness, even in the presence of a loved one. As a result, instead of rejoicing and enjoying your relationship with your loved one, you can plunge into the abyss of anxiety, which sucks you into the depths of a pool full of sadness and melancholy. Thoughts and emotions are reflected in a person’s behavior and convey that something in the relationship does not suit you. Your partner may not understand that you actually love him so much that you are afraid of losing him and that is why you are behaving so strangely. Instead, he will try to read your thoughts and interpret your behavior in his own way. He may even believe that you don't love him and don't need him. As a result, a conflict may brew in the couple, which will not be easy to resolve on your own. One lump of understatement leads to another. And now we have before us a tangle woven from misunderstandings between two loving people. In order not to get confused in these networks, you need to honestly admit to yourself and your loved one your feelings. No matter how difficult it may be for you, allow yourself to surrender to the flow of feelings and float along it, without clinging to anxious thoughts about a future that may not come. I wish you to understand and hear yourself and your loved one!