From the author: This material was published on the author’s website “Demyanova Science” Let’s think: “What is truth?” The truth is that it is often terrible. It is short, direct and to the point. Do you personally need it? We do not encourage you to lie, but we want you to “open your eyes” and understand the important mechanism of communication! Evil in a lie is when there is evil conscious intent. Lying in other variants often helps a person adapt, sometimes survive (this is even described in fairy tales - in the fairy tale Morozko had to lie to Alyonushka that she was warm), maintain relationships and even develop them for the better. Why? Look at your loved one! What do you think, which version of your statements will he choose: 1. If you tell him that he has beautiful eyes, broad shoulders, crooked legs, a beautiful smile, a potato nose and that you don’t like the way he lisps to others, but he turns out to say your name so affectionately , and that he has stupid thoughts... 2. Or say: “You are the most charming man, your appearance just drives me crazy, I love your soulful look, your smile and when you so affectionately call me by name...” Agree, there is no person without flaws. Think: If only the truth comes out of the mouth of your loved one, children, friends, colleagues addressed to you. It’s very easy to fly, according to the principle: what I think is what I say, without hiding or embellishing! Then you will not be the most beautiful, kindest, smartest and fairest for your children. Because this is not true and everything is relative! Are you ready to live in such a world? Do you know? The science of human relations says: If there were no lies, there would be no poetry, painting, art, advertising... Our emotions would be very scarce! Look the Truth in the eye. Learn not to be afraid of her. Control your lies and never use them as malicious or selfish intent. Know how to identify the lies of others. Master special techniques. Let them help you better understand your interlocutor, make you that observant, confident person who controls his own life, and not circumstances and people control him! Take care of each other, respect your friends, understand and appreciate those around you, build good, warm relationships with your family! Good luck to you!