Imagine a girl sitting alone in a cafe. She taps her fingers on the surface of the table, waiting for her ☕️And she came because she just wanted to be alone, to think. A situation had arisen in her life that is commonly called “Relationship Crisis.” She wanted to rewind time and remember the period of falling in love. It seemed to her like a wonderful fairy tale. There was no doubt that this was “the one.” There were no quarrels or conflicts; I really wanted to spend as much time as possible together. And it seemed that it would always be like this... What is happening now? Conflicts out of the blue, misunderstandings 🙅 ♀️ And this is his annoying silence and eternal detachment... Why didn’t I notice these qualities in him before? In such a situation, everyone might think - perhaps I made a mistake with my choice. The search for an “ideal partner” or “soul mate” is not only illusory, but also leads to a number of unpleasant consequences: ❌ Unrealistic expectations. People who are “made for each other friend” - always harmony, peace, understanding. There are no quarrels, no one gets tired of each other. And we go into a relationship with such expectations, which means we doom ourselves to burning disappointment.❌Filter for men. In search of “the one,” we launch a program for selecting and sorting men. As a result, we miss out on interesting people. It works especially “well” if you go on a marathon to find the ideal man. There they will definitely give you a task - to make a list of required qualities and characteristics. And launch intention into the Universe. And there are two outcomes: 🤦‍♀️No worthy ones were found. Hello loneliness. 🙇‍♀️It came true two years later. It just turned out that this is not what I need. And it’s not surprising - our needs change over time. Everything is predetermined. In other words, I will shift responsibility to fate. Thus, we have accumulated a huge number of unresolved problems. Bottom line? What to do if you know all this and are ready to give up the utopian position of searching for a “soulmate?”❗️Choose your own partner and learn to build a harmonious relationship with him❗️Why do we learn to drive a car, build a business, etc. And we’re not learning how to create a relationship with a partner at all? If you have any questions, or there is an unresolved situation where you need help, sign up for a consultation at : 8-926-662-98-01.