Sveta was an ordinary modern girl. She was a little lazy, snooze her morning alarm clock 10 times and didn’t have time to eat in the morning. She drank coffee at work, stole sweets from the accounting department, bought yogurt for lunch. She was often late at work, trying to take extra hours, because she so dreamed of the Maldives. You need to go on vacation at least 3 times a year to the sea, this speaks about your status, and sea air is also good for your health. And no Egypt. After all, you must love yourself, and Egypt is Tagil. And even better, you need to find a guy to take you to the Maldives. A man should have his own apartment. Otherwise, he is an unworthy man. We don’t need someone like that. During breaks, Sveta opens Instagram* and sees ideal families, all her friends have already gotten married, each given birth to two children and put them in the status of “happy mother and wife.” And Sveta is 30. The clock will stop soon. You need a man, at least some kind, or give birth for yourself, at worst. And on Instagram everyone is so successful. How could they? How did you manage? Why can’t I, it’s so simple! And it’s easy to make a figure, 3 minutes in the morning. And you can earn 100 thousand while caring for your baby. What’s wrong with me? Sveta comes home, and there’s a cat there. At her age, she would need 40 cats. After all, no children, no husband. With the last of her strength, Sveta goes to the gym, because her figure is simple, but in the morning there are 10 alarm clocks. After the gym, a protein bar, because it doesn’t put aside, if you eat carbohydrates, it will instantly blow you away, and you’ll definitely have to live with cats. Who will love you like this? Who needs you anyway? With tears welling up, Sveta slams the cabinets with shaking hands and looks for something to drown out all these caustic thoughts. There is a chorus of voices in my head: mother, friend, coach from Insta, sister, colleague, coach, woman with a baby in her arms from Oriflame. This is how irrational thoughts kill us. Separate them from yourself. Remember who they belong to? It's your decision? Is this your dream? Is this what you wanted? Or did your mother, sister and coach want it? For what purpose did they say this? Care? Evoke emotions? Sell ​​a product? Sign up for consultation +7 969 054-67-34 WhatsApp Telegram channel https://t.me/psiholog_kolganova VKontakte group https://vk.com/psiholog_kolganova* Instagram belongs to the company Meta, which is recognized as an extremist organization in Russia.