Your girlfriend dumped you? Or betrayed you in difficult times? Broken, lost, you can’t sleep and have no appetite. Still thinking about how to convince her to stay and how to get her back? This article is definitely for you... Having helped with the restoration of relationships and the return of ex-girlfriends for many years, and to every client who finds himself in a difficult situation and not If you have completely decided how to act, I first strongly recommend that you carefully weigh the risks of this desire and your own spiritual urges. Getting your ex back is in itself very complex and includes many subtleties and nuances. It’s difficult to get an ex-girlfriend back; it will be much easier to start a relationship with a new girl... And after returning, not everyone will be happy that the girl who has been on their nerves for many years will take up her life again and with renewed vigor. That’s why an adult should think it over and see three steps forward before doing anything stupid. When we discuss this issue in detail with clients, I put the main emphasis on the fact that during the time spent under one roof together, they became very accustomed to each other and from this they developed a dependence that interferes with healthy take a look at things. But at the second session, about two weeks later, the client, having cooled his head a little, often still persistently continues to stick to his line and strive to return everything back. We discuss the intricacies of female psychology, consider the specific problems of his love relationships and evaluate his actions . With this step, a real transformation of a man’s character begins: in a positive direction, of course. We find a way to improve his communication skills and practice basic return techniques. And everything else of the same kind. What exactly do these steps consist of? And what to do if a girl leaves? Let's discuss! Realization - “the rose-colored glasses have been broken.” The pain of this step is hellish: agony torments the one who tries to step over his pride and see the ugly truth with bold eyes. Your beloved has abandoned you. And there will be a reason for this. Your sobbing requests will not correct this misfortune and will not bring it back. This requires drastic measures. Transformation - personal growth As soon as you build an information vacuum around yourself and isolate yourself from your ex for a month, you will begin to analyze the mistakes of the past and try to understand what specific reason caused her leaving. And don’t deceive yourself: they don’t leave an ideal man In the end, knowing your weaknesses and mistakes will help you build relationships in the future whose strength will not give way to weakness. Think about everything and start working on yourself. Otherwise, the breakup will happen again: with another young lady. Showing interest, increasing significance Correctly creating an information vacuum will arouse curiosity and partly a pinch of jealousy in a woman. She will begin to be interested in you when she does not see a hundred unread messages in a week. She will get terribly angry and become interested in you with renewed vigor. There is no logic here: but this is how female love works. But do not immediately give in to her requests to answer you. Maintain your courage and remain silent. Take care of yourself for now. Return - a completely new relationship You will be able to return the young lady when she comes to a clear understanding that she cannot imagine her future without you. That she adores you. That you are a knight, her only love. And will help her realize this short-term loneliness. You will take a strong position and restore the relationship in five minutes when you meet her again in two weeks or a month. And it’s not for nothing that I wrote “a completely new relationship,” because if you don’t want to break up again in a couple of months, then put your relationship on a new one rails. An important thought... When my clients resort to the help of articles by other authors and try to combine their advice with mine, it usually turns out to be a mess and everything goes to hell. First, they jump from one stage of return to another, and then they become disappointed in everything and finally abandon the girl whom, deep down in their souls, they passionately want to return. And finding a new young lady will not be an easy task.)