In women's groups, very often the participants are divided into two groups, one tells their stories, they live in relationships that they are not happy with, they experience discomfort, difficulties, misunderstandings in them , dissatisfaction and dissatisfaction with their man, lack of communication, self-attention and affection, as well as a feeling of lack of love. Another part of women does not understand why they experience insurmountable difficulties in finding their man, for a relationship with whom they would like to share a life full of love. What prevents women who are smart, responsible, caring, sweet and cheerful (of course there are many more positive qualities) from building harmonious relationships? I always answer this question the same way - it is not knowing ourselves that hinders us. Not knowing how to BUILD relationships that would suit us. This is not manipulation, this is precisely building relationships. We learn this in groups and in personal consultations, we learn to build them in such a way that they both feel comfortable, in them any opinion has the right to exist on both sides, in them we show respect (without this, many relationships are destroyed) - only this allows open up to trust and discuss, comes to mutual agreement in solving difficult life situations. “The relationship between two becomes a mirror. A woman begins to look into a man and discovers her masculinity; a man looks into a woman and reveals his femininity” (Osho). For each of us, regardless of gender, there lives an inner Woman and an inner Man. In Eastern culture, the masculine and feminine principles of yin and yang are one of the most important concepts. Carl Gustav Jung called these parts of the unconscious: Anima and Animus. Anima is the feminine and Animus is the masculine element in the psyche of every person. We can feel how these two principles are manifested in us. At one moment we are heavy and fast - the energy is hot, explosive... At another moment - we are soft and sedate, the energy is cool, like a lake filled with water... It is easy to explain why there are such obvious contradictions in us: we contain two polarities - male and female. We are Yin and Yang, left and right, fire and water, logical and irrational. Probably, many women felt incredible strength in themselves when making any decision, their sharp mind allowed them to notice important little things in solving difficult issues, and feeling responsibility is sometimes so high that instead of much-needed personal rest, they perform a “sense of duty” and we have noticed many other manifestations in ourselves. What is this ? Where do we, seemingly fragile creatures, have such mental strength, will, and intelligence? All these are manifestations of our inner man. All these are manifestations of Yang qualities. How this affects relationships is described here https://www.b17.ru/article/yan_in_genschini_kak_mygchina_/. And by nature, we women have fluidity, flexibility, softness, tenderness, love for everything, acceptance. But in our modern world, a woman often becomes strong and strong-willed, because these qualities are cultivated for life (and sometimes survival). So what happens between our inner Woman and Man is an internal, often unconscious, conflict. It is their internal conflicts, disagreements and contradictions, which most often we are not aware of, that are reflected in our external life. It is our inner Woman who builds our unconscious relationships with men and manifests herself in her relationships with women. And our inner Man influences relationships with women and positions the outer man. All this knowledge is about two opposites inherent in everything in the Universe, including in man. The world is made up of opposites. Everything has a beginning and an end. It is very important for us how these two principles interact in us, how aware we can be of their messages and impulses, how they manifest themselves in external life in interaction with people. When our inner Woman and Man cooperate, our resources are revealed, we are full of strength, joy, desires, energy, ideas. “Why don’t we.