Who is a psychologist? intended to share a scheme that worked once, and the one who takes into account the uniqueness of the human psyche. Not the one that gives advice, but the one that gives food for thought. Nk is the one who exalts himself over you, but the one who speaks to you as an equal. Not the one who is healthy from birth, but the one who has his own history of trauma and healing. Initially, healthy people do not come into this profession. Not the one who rushes to save at all costs, but the one who first put the mask on himself. Not the one who is ideal, but the one who has learned to come into contact with the present. Not one who is invulnerable, and one who knows that in presenting vulnerability lies strength. Not a picture from the Internet, but a person with the ability to experience the full range of feelings. Not a robot who performs tasks mechanically, but a creative professional in good communication with his body and sensory apparatus, and therefore with yours. Not the one who guarantees the time frame for your progress, but the one who follows the speed of your processes. Not the one who evaluates, but the one who is on your side using the methods that are available to him. Not the one who hides behind the direction, but the one who works primarily with himself. Not the one who revels in divinity, believing that he knows how to live for you, and the one who is looking for good options with you. Not the one with whom you are not satisfied, but the one who has a large container for any of your processes, being at the point of neutrality. Not the one , that can replace your mother, and someone who can see and withstand the transfer. Not the one who is dogmatic and conservative, but the one who is flexible and at the same time stable. Not the one who gives double messages, but the one who is clear and honest. Well, we remember that a good psychologist must be stupid, lazy and immoral. Stupid , so as not to think for the client. Lazy, so as not to do anything for the client. Immoral, so as not to judge the client.