From the author: About how to start living your values ​​and go from comfortable to happy. This is exactly what I see a lot of questions from women of different ages on various sites. And this is precisely why, my dear ladies, today I want to touch upon, in my opinion, a very important and possibly painful topic. Many women suffer, experiencing feelings of shame and inferiority, from the fact that they do not meet the “standards” of beauty, for example. Or some other “significant” standards. For example, my mother’s friend’s daughter became a doctor, and you, Oh! God!!! - hairdresser! In this regard, I want to draw your attention to this: * firstly, whose standards are these? which ones do you want to match? and what are your personal “standards”?* Secondly, what is significant and valuable in the lives of some people can be destructive and completely insignificant in the lives of others. Here Einstein’s wonderful expression came to mind about what if fish were evaluated If she knows how to climb trees, she would consider herself a fool all her life! So should a “fish” feel inferior and strive to fit in? Think, my dears, in what situations do you feel like a fish climbing trees? I wish you to find your significant other pond and be happy!