People don't want to be alone, they want relationships. Recently, there have been a lot more clients with such requests, so I decided to write this article. Typically, problems of this kind are addressed by those who have already had experience, sometimes not entirely successful, of relationships. This is true for both men and women. First of all, I always ask clients to analyze their past relationships, and from the point of view of their own behavior. In most cases, people have a grudge against their ex-partner, and they carefully feed and nurture this feeling (viewing photos from a vacation spent with him, two years ago), thereby preventing themselves from moving on to a new relationship. Sometimes people unconsciously tend to transfer their negativity towards their “ex” to the entire opposite sex; this, too, does not have a beneficial effect on the process of searching for a new object of feelings. I suggest clients think about this question: Why do people leave? What would have happened if they had been kinder, more attentive to their ex-partners? Thus, we formulate and create rules that the client can use in the future. / or maybe not, but then the result can be repeated / Many people answer the question: “Why do you need a new partner?” They respond expressing sincere surprise. The explanations may be different, but essentially they agree on one thing. A partner is needed to make the client feel good and comfortable. In other words, the new partner must solve the person's problems. Accordingly, what is needed is not a relationship, but someone who will bring order to the client’s life. And this is where creativity begins - a certain image is invented, endowed with certain qualities and advantages, and the search begins for just such a person who will solve problems. This is what people expect first. Today, information about almost any person can be obtained without much difficulty / social networks, dating sites, and so on /, it turns out that people themselves create and come up with expectations about a person, often based on indirect facts / profiles on social networks / and not on personal information. In this way, it is not a person who is being sought, but a relationship option, taking into account the difficult situation of the one who is looking. Everyone is familiar with the example of candy in a shiny wrapper, but many are so carried away by the search for a beautiful wrapper that they completely forget about the taste of the contents. In my opinion, you need to start with yourself, it is very important to accept yourself, at the present moment. Without unnecessary criticism and condemnation, it is necessary to accept the fact that everything is good inside and really realize it, despite the apparent complexity of it. After which the problem with relationships will be solved more easily, for a person, if his soul is light, it is easier to give of himself, to share happiness... Note that we all find it more pleasant to communicate and deal with people who are optimistic. If you have difficulties finding a person to live with, contact us, we’ll figure it out together. Live with joy! If you liked the article, do not hesitate to use the “say thank you” form" )