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Attraction is a fundamental concept in psychoanalysis, characterizing something between something somatic, bodily and between something actually mental. It consists of 4 characteristics: goal, object, tension and source. Any drive strives for its discharge and its global goal is satisfaction, which can only be achieved by eliminating excitation in the source. More precisely, temporary satisfaction, since the irritation associated with it comes from within the body and acts constantly. Goals can also be nearby, intermediate and inhibited drives. They can shift, change, and be directed at different objects. Attractions can be with an active goal (for example, to look at) and with a passive goal (to be looked at). The sexual goal in the infantile period is located in the erogenous zone with which it is connected. This satisfaction is considered self-sufficient. For example, oral satisfaction in a child is limited only to the mouth area; it does not lead to anything more. And for a person with a mature psychosexual orientation, oral satisfaction in the form of a kiss only increases tension, because the main goal is achieved in the sexual act. That is, the goal of attraction may not be satisfaction, but an increase in tension, which contributes to further release. With masochism, pleasure begins with an increase in tension from the experience of pain. We can see this in the example of Severine, the main character of the film "Beauty of the Day". She is married to the loving and caring Pierre, but she is not attracted to him. His wife is cold towards him. Moreover, Severine’s dreams and fantasies are associated with humiliation and violence against her. The girl was able to experience what she wanted only thanks to secret part-time work in a brothel. Moreover, the strongest attraction was caused by an impulsive, jealous and cruel client, capable of turning her fantasies into reality. By object of attraction is meant an object on which or through which it is possible to obtain temporary satisfaction of desire. It can be either a foreign object or a part of your own body. Kinaudo J.-M. in his work “Reading Freud: a study of Freud’s works in chronological perspective”, he clarifies that a foreign object can also be understood as an external object (for example, someone you know). By implying an object on which one can get satisfaction, we are talking directly about the object , associated with physicality - most often an oral, anal, genital (phallic) object, less often tactile, scopic or auditory. In the case of fetishism, the object of desire will be an intermediary object. This includes a special uniform (maids, nurses, plumbers, etc.) or part of the image (high heels, over the knee boots, mask, corset). That is, any external object on which the representation of sexual desire is fixed and without which obtaining satisfaction is difficult and sometimes impossible. For example, Chuck Rhoads, one of the main characters of the TV series Billions, in order to achieve pleasure, must be a participant in role-playing games where he performs a slave who is scolded and punished by his wife in the form of a mistress. The action takes place using special clothing and appropriate paraphernalia, and with the exclusion of these intermediary objects, release becomes impossible for Chuck. The object of desire is considered the most changeable element of desire. And taking into account how the fate of attraction develops over the course of life, it can change many times. Thanks to this feature, after parting with one person, we can fall in love with another and experience attraction to him. Fixation on an object is also possible, which is characterized by a strong attachment to it and resistance to separation. Fixation can occur both in the case of excessive pleasure and in the case of excessive frustration. As a striking example, the scandalous story known in the media under the name “Passion around Sada Abe.” The girl's love adventures are over

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