From the author: sexologist-psychotherapist, family psychologist. expert on television programs, member of the professional psychotherapeutic league, master of NLP, educational psychologist, specialist in the eastern version of neuroprogramming, specialist in personal well-being and family relationships, trainer, coach, esoteric psychotherapist. The author of more than 500 articles on a variety of problems, which you can see by looking at the *articles* section and, probably, this will already help solve your problem. The author of more than 100 training programs, as you can see by visiting my video channel on YouTube and typing “Afanasyeva Lilia This happens sometimes, and there is even a tendency that over time, the problem of reluctance to have sex increases, especially when sex is in a couple I have already become accustomed, and the partners know everything about each other in sex. Now I had a client from Moscow. She has only been in a relationship for a few months, and I would like things to get hotter and with this I started working as a sexologist. , psychotherapist, and family psychologist, plus additional work on eliminating the female sexual problem of anorgasmia - when sometimes I didn’t want sex at all, in any way. So, a girl in her early twenties loves her partner, he is good in many ways, and she would like to. see him as your future husband. But, first, it’s worth fixing the sex. That’s what we started doing with her. As often happens in the practice of sexologists, psychotherapists and family psychologists, we ended up with a not entirely successful experience of first sex. At that time, the girl was fifteen, she loved the guy very much, but during the first sex she was in pain, but my client from Moscow endured all this, fearing that her partner would not like her refusal. As a result, a few minutes after sex, the second one took place, and the pain situation worsened even more. Now we have eliminated this problematic memory by resourcing the girl and moved on. I note that first sex is often unsuccessful. And don't get hung up on it. Then the rejection of sex came up, and the client remembered a childhood story. Then the girl was not yet ten years old. The parents had loud sex, and then their bed broke, and they giggled for a long time. There was some kind of disgust from this whole story. Next, another unpleasant story came out in terms of sex. Then the girl was very worried. Now, before sex, we added resource states to my client from Moscow: relax, calm down, feel comfortable. And then, in the girl’s memory, this negative episode was rewritten differently. Afterwards there was another unpleasant memory of my vacation in the south. At that time, the client was very drunk and had sex with an unfamiliar guy. It would have been more correct to refuse him, but then she was afraid of offending him. A similar situation was repeated again, and now my client from Moscow made a decision for herself: not to follow the lead of men, and if there is no desire to have sex, or no feelings, there is no point in starting... Then the topic came up, some kind of spasms before sex, which worsened its quality, and sometimes she simply canceled sex with her boyfriend. Now, as a psychologist-sexologist, I have come to the conclusion of one of the reasons for this problem - you need to follow your desires, and also added more trust to your current partner and the accompanying positive states: calmness, rationality and self-confidence. With this, my work as a sexologist, psychotherapist and family psychologist was completed. It is worth noting that I have a lot of examples of my psychotherapy, a lot of practice, a lot of knowledge, both from classical sexology and in the aspect of working on sexual therapy, both in pairs with a partner and in an individual format. My next webinar on the topic of achieving orgasm, both by the woman herself and together with her loved one, will take place approximately in this direction. I invite you to my free webinar, register right there on the portal