Possible changes that await a person seeking psychological help become the cause of new thoughts and feelings of the client. Cognitive - emotional dissonance sometimes raises waves in the psyche that the psychologist is obliged to warn the person about before starting work. Any technique, any method and method of communication with a psychologist is a novelty in mental perceptions, in the mental space of His Majesty the Soul. Imagine if the desolate garden in front of the house finds a new gardener who knows botany and biology, agronomy and horticulture. Trees will be pruned, flowers will be replanted and fertilized, the soil will be loosened and watered, weeds will be removed, and new plants will be added. The gardener really likes the changes, but sometimes he begins to remember the times of desolation and his own peace. When nature itself changed the seasons, the wind tore off the leaves, and the rains watered the flowers and trees. There was no artificial beauty, there was spontaneous chaos and roses overgrown with weeds. So in therapy, a person for a moment understands what he can do, he is omnipotent over circumstances only when he regularly works: on habits, relationships, monitors his own health and takes care of himself harmoniously. He begins to interfere with his healing, afraid of success and power. Go bankrupt or go into debt, returning to habitual workaholism. Divorce from a stable and reliable partner, complaining about his boring and pedantic, predictable and rational character. A person interferes with his success by failing a project in order to remain best friends with a colleague who presents a less successful project . A person prevents himself from being in order to obtain scarce and unconscious things that he can afford to achieve himself. Deep, high-quality work with a specialist in the correction of behavior, relationships, and goal setting brings to the surface forbidden emotions, feelings and shadow habits. By pushing and being afraid of his own parts, a person prevents himself from forming his own unique personality, relying on his own desires, writing his own internal rules and approving his text of the book called life. Viber WhatsApp.89271287007 I will NOT stop you from carrying out your own transformation. Psychologist Yakovenko Galina. Subscribe to my publications and don’t forget to say “thank you”"