In the modern world, even the most feminine women are confused. On the one hand, they want to be carried in their arms, bowed down, written poetry and enveloped in romance, on the other hand they develop a commanding voice, solve problems, fix cars and lift weights. Social attitudes towards money, success and power do not discriminate between men and women. To be firm, proud and somewhat bitchy is “fashionable”, “modern” and “practical”, if not for one “but”... A woman’s inner world is still woven from completely different ideals. The daily clash between internal and external makes her life hectic, tense and dull. Even if now she looks like a hammer blower, the girl who had her hair braided and bought toy dishes still lives inside her. In those distant times, she knew very well that when she grew up, she would become a beautiful, slender woman. She will put on lipstick, wear heels and she will definitely have her own prince and carriage. A small, but such a genuine woman diligently drew hearts, took care of her dolls, cut out pictures with “real men” and dreamed... dreamed... What do you think this tired, coarse, overweight woman is dreaming about now? Alas, things didn’t work out with either the prince or the carriage! Why? Because at some point she pushed the man away from her, drowned in her own pride, increased her mass and turned into a strong, unapproachable rock. But look into her eyes. Unhappiness and loneliness “screams” in them. Yes, she learned to be strong, strong-willed and independent, but she forgot how to be a woman. Fortunately, you are not in danger of this. If you are reading this article, then you already have every chance of becoming a truly happy and desirable woman. Just a few rules will help you find love, harmony, remember your most beautiful dress and attract the best men. So, write down, print out, and most importantly, follow the following important rules: 1. Don’t be a jerk. If you constantly hold back, then your patience becomes a time bomb. Sooner or later there will be an explosion, and you know how it can end. It is advisable not to delay your dissatisfaction and voice what you don’t like in a timely manner. Please note, do not shout, do not become hysterical, but calmly, lovingly and to the point. Believe me, it will be much safer than your “unexpected statements” after many years of pushing your “wild emotions” inside. 2. Ask. If you don't ask for anything, a man doesn't feel needed. There is simply no place for him to be a hero next to you. He starts looking for another woman, throws himself into work or lies down on the sofa. If you want happiness, you must ask. Make life easier for both yourself and your man. 3. Give thanks. If a man fulfilled your requests, desires, dreams, but did not receive gratitude, he will not do this again. By not paying attention, you are demotivating him. He doesn't feel like a winner or a hero. For a man to continue to help you, you need to not only ask, but also thank him every time. He needs energy for future victories. By expressing positive emotions and admiration, you give him strength. 4. Don't play mommy. If you realize yourself in a relationship as a mother, then most likely you do not trust yourself as a woman. “Mother” shows her superiority, loves to control, is categorical in her statements, regrets even where a sane person is ready to “do the work,” indulges in weaknesses, her favorite phrase is “I’ll do it myself.” The “wife” does not show pity, but can sympathize and empathize, maintains relationships as equals, trusts the man and believes in his abilities, has flexible thinking and is easily rebuilt; in a couple, everyone has their own responsibilities. 5. Don't sulk or be offended. Do you think he's a telepath? Men can't read minds. And you, with your game of silence, are using the most cruel manipulative technique. If you don't like something, then say what it is. When you are offendedly silent, he feels like a complete insignificance, a loser and not/