Imagine that you are rolling down an escalator with your loved one. You are so carried away by each other that you do not notice at all how suddenly the leg of your partner’s trousers is sucked into the opening of a moving staircase. From surprise, your eyes widen , and for a moment you don’t know what to do. Your partner, by the way, doesn’t either. But due to the unpleasant sensation in his leg (yes, I also feel sorry for the trousers), by inertia he grabs it and tries to pull the sucked part of the trousers out of the lift. After hesitating a little, you pull his hand, but it slips off. He continues to slide down, observing how confidently part of the trousers no longer belongs to him. And you, with convulsive movements, going up the escalator, rushing around with the gaze of a lioness, trying to stop the colossus with your hands in the hope of somehow helping your loved one (or maybe saving his pants).No. Not so. Let's move to the kitchen of one of the ordinary families. And there... Sticky circles on the table from your loved one’s mugs, or his neatly standing socks in the corner of the bed. Or, much more terrible, the merciless snoring, reminiscent of the roar of a hippopotamus, of your beloved cutie. Or the passionate rescue of aliens in a computer game completely broke the illusory idea of ​​financial stability before marriage. And about flowers and dates? Oooh, and this can be done ad infinitum, - after all, there are periods of crisis in the family... (honestly, you can lose count). Therefore, you are standing on a stable surface from above... from the escalator. Yes, exactly there! Because the main part of crisis periods in the family is formed on the basis of intrapersonal ones, which are inevitable in life. And going through them, everyone chooses:✔️to be at the top of the escalator, (perhaps already in shorts),✔️or to go downstairs, everyone is just as zealous holding on to a torn piece of pants. And family or your partnership is just a mirror of which path you choose. Together or separately. Signing up for a consultation is still available in any way available to you. With respect to you, Anna Kurdyukova.