The child is often put under pressure not only by the school, but also by the parents. At the same time, they may not even raise their hand or raise their voice. And influence him with words and your behavior. At the same time, parents are proud of this behavior, believing that they can resolve issues without any problems. What types of child suppression can there be? For example: 1. Ignoring a child. At the same time, they do not pay attention to requests and complaints, believing that he must endure and suffer the desired result; 2. Silence. Parents do not speak to their child for days or even weeks. Considering that he should understand what the reason is to come and apologize; 3. Threat to leave him on the street, give him to his uncle, hand him over to the police. The child is then afraid to be left alone, shying away from all strangers; 4. Manipulation. If you behave like this, then we will not love you, you are bad. Of course, this is fixed in the child’s subconscious; 5. Feelings of guilt. There is no need to do this so that the mother does not suffer, the grandmother does not worry. Of course, a child asks for many attitudes throughout his life and can even apply them in his family. After all, they did the same to him. Despite the fact that the family seems to be intelligent, the child grows up depressed, does not like his relatives, and is not comfortable at home. He can go to a bad company, an extreme or death group, because there they understand him and accept him as he is. Or another problem may occur. A person grows up and everything seems to be fine with him, but he does not feel his character due to previous suppression. He cannot understand where his desires are and where others’ desires are. A person does not see a goal, lives by inertia, does not know how to build relationships with people. Overprotection as a type of suppression Overprotection is also one of the types of suppressing the child’s desires. His parents decide for him what to eat, what to wear, where to go. Therefore, he grows up without his own opinion. Can't cope with life's difficulties. What types of guardianship are there? Namely: 1. Dominant. Everything is prohibited; the will of the father or mother is law for the child. Parents can lower a child’s self-esteem and prevent him from growing up morally. Children then do not know how to think critically, defend their opinions, or make decisions. They are used to obeying their parents in everything. 2. Conniving. In this case, the baby is the idol of the family, everything is done for his sake, the child is idealized. His needs are always more significant than the needs of others. The baby grows into a personality with high self-esteem and a hysterical character. He believes that everyone should treat him with the same admiration as his parents. 3. Demonstration. In this case, children are enrolled in all sorts of clubs, bought fashionable and expensive clothes, and play for the audience. They do not see the child as a living person with his own needs. They treat him like a doll so they can brag about his achievements. Guardianship intensifies as a person grows older; increasingly inflated demands are placed on him. 4. Inert. The mother cannot accept the fact that the child has already grown up, so she treats him as if he were a child. She wants to remain the most significant person in his life. This prevents him from growing up morally and psychologically; his mother makes all decisions for him. All types of guardianship are psychological problems of parents. They are insecure, often have low self-esteem and can be anxious. All this results in suppression and guardianship. Group study “Fear. Anxiety. Depression." 3 psychologists will help you get rid of your problems. Join via the link http://t.me/Psychology_depression_bot