How to enter the closed circle of people who reject me? If there are a circle of people who ride bicycles, then you need to learn how to ride masterfully and start sharing your experience. If the circle you want to join reads poetry, sings songs, plays musical instruments, then you need to learn all this and be an example for many. If a foreign language is spoken in the circle, it is necessary to master it perfectly. Nowadays, there are certain “subculture” teams, they establish rules of behavior: dress code, slang, demeanor, musical preference, etc. “A subculture is a part of the culture of a society that differs in its behavior from the prevailing majority, as well as social groups of carriers of this culture. A subculture may differ from the dominant culture in its own value system, language, behavior, clothing and other aspects. There are subcultures that are formed on national, demographic, professional, geographic and other bases,” reference from Wikipedia. If you want to become one of them, you should study the rules that guide them, accept them completely for yourself and start living like these people, then you will smoothly become one of them. Sometimes, to be accepted into their world, group members use initiation rituals, for example, into knights, or into Tolkienists, and assign a test to the newcomer. BUT, before joining any group that is different from another part of society, I recommend understanding why you need it, what benefits you will get for yourself what changes will happen in your life if you become one of them. There are very different situations when it is easy to enter a group, but very difficult to leave it. Think.