«...You know, I had a story in my life... I was in love with one person, let's call him “A”... A long time ago, right after school... He was several years older, and I was flattered by his attention... I liked that he was stronger, smarter than those around me... There was love, there was passion!... We broke up because... I realized that in his life - “ one of…". He could, after a night with me, flirt on a dating site with some lady... Almost without hiding, no, without hiding at all... He could, having forgotten about meeting me, play some kind of computer game, play for a day, and, after that, send a message: “Sorry, Pusik, it’s my fault, but I love you.” I left him. The most offensive thing is that he did not try to return... Seven years have passed. I'm married, everything is fine with me. No, honestly, everything is fine. There is no such passionate love as there once was, but there is no reason to change anything... But there is a thorn inside: “Am I really worse than a dog, I can be abandoned, I am not worthy of even the last “Sorry”?”...Facebook - he’s like, Facebook... “You may know this person.” Am I familiar with a certain “A”, now living in Moscow?.... In the picture he was - matured, matured... And, in my soul, it was as if something had turned upside down: I again became a little sobbing girl who was abandoned... Yes, I left , but he left me! Do you know what I decided? There is a famous blogger “E”, she writes a lot about comeback. This is to go back to communicating with the person who hurt you, and to “replay everything,” to do everything differently. Hurt him without falling for his tricks. I want him to fall in love with me again and... leave him. Do what he did. I started the correspondence with “A”. It seems he took the bait...Why do I need this? I said, complete that story, increase my self-esteem. Did I come to you for approval? If you want, partly yes. Is this a good idea? Oh! I'm completely safe! Six hundred kilometers between us! Husband? I'm not going to cheat on him! I want to solve my old problem and live on, happily ever after! What if something goes wrong?....What could go wrong? I will not fall in love, I understand that I am not on the same path with such men, he only loves himself and his desires. And, knowing this, will I fall in love? You laugh! What if - suddenly? You know, I can make him fall in love, but I can’t do it myself! What will stop me if he falls in love? That is, he won’t fall in love, but he will love? I... I don’t know... tell me, maybe he’s already changed? I have changed... Maybe we have a future together?... Maybe love will conquer everything?... What will I do? I don’t know...there’s just nothing between us, six hundred kilometers, a night on a train...Husband? No, I don’t want to hurt him! I feel...calm with him...But it seems too calm...But... What if my true love is there? I seem to have fallen into a trap again. No, I’m driving myself into a trap! I no longer need your approval - tell me, WHAT SHOULD I DO?”…..So, breathe out. This, for starters. So far, nothing has happened. Have you calmed down? Now, remember once and for all: forget all these articles, with practical advice, with comebacks and other nonsense, once and for all. If someone likes to develop a “female bitch” in themselves, then this is not for me. And not about me. And not about you, if you want to live happily, and not take revenge on others and yourself. Revenge is, you know, a sweet poison, poured into several glasses. Everyone will get it - both you and your husband, not to mention this certain “A” to whom you want to prove something, perhaps by ruining his current life. Once again, exhale. What doesn’t suit you about today? Lack of strong emotions, the usual course of life? Are you looking for adventure? Do you need these hemorrhoids? Also an adventure. And, relatively harmless, compared to some dreams. You know, there is such a neurotransmitter - “dopamine”, the engine of progress. It makes you look for the best when there is good. Responsible for action and motivation... On the scale of civilization, it is very... conducive. But for an individual it’s a drug: “Oh, I’m fine! And it's boring! Life is full…