Who is usually called a womanizer, and what guides this type of men? I think you have heard the definition of “womanizer” more than once, and maybe even said so yourself. A womanizer is usually called a man who is used to changing women. He is not able to stay in one relationship for a long time, he constantly needs new emotions and bright affects. In most cases, such men are very pleasant-looking, they are charming and incredibly charismatic. They easily come into contact with people, regardless of gender. Contrary to popular belief, womanizers can have deep, emotional conversations. Sometimes they even talk about something personal, which may make the interlocutor feel like he is dealing with an exceptionally deep person. “The other day I met a man who seemed like a womanizer to me. He is incredibly charming and pleasant, charming me with his humor. But my intuition tells me that I will not be his only partner if I agree to enter into a romantic relationship. I can’t understand what to do in this situation: I like him very much, but I’m ready to be only in those relationships where I will be the only one and loved,” says Marina. I have drawn up a conditional classification of this type of man: Loner. This type of man changes women very often, but remains lonely. Up to the age of 60, he can be socially active, but not develop relationships with women beyond the level of fleeting meetings. In my therapeutic experience, I notice that the basis of the problems of such men is childhood trauma. Many had a pushing mother who subjugated the father. In this case, the man treats women with caution and disdain, especially those who in some way resemble his mother. Married. This type of womanizer almost always legitimizes his relationship with a new partner. Moreover, in a marital relationship, he can have a mistress. Moralist. Such a man is most often married to a “right” woman with a conservative outlook on life. At the same time, he actively communicates with more interesting and active girls, hiding this from his wife. When people ask me why this or that man is a womanizer, I answer that it’s all about the peculiarities of nervous activity. They are the determining factor in this matter. Of course, the psychological factor of the environment in which a person grew up also plays a role. However, this is a secondary aspect. If you want to learn in more detail about how the thinking of a connoisseur of female beauty functions, I am ready to share my knowledge in a personal consultation! Sincerely, Your psychologist, Ilya Akhmedov.