Unconditional love. When you hear the words “family, children...” what do you associate them with? What's the first thing you think about? Personally, I am about love, and unconditional love, about acceptance and, of course, about education. What is unconditional love? What do they eat it with? This is what I want to think about. When you ask someone the question “What is love?”, you hear many different answers. Not everyone remembers, but in the 90s, “LOVEIS” chewing gum with inserts containing some kind of definition of the action was very popular, confirming that this is what love is. For example: “Love is handing him a towel when shampoo gets in his eyes.” Accordingly, love is care, attention, participation and trust above all. Then the question arises, what is unconditional love? I think the name speaks for itself - love without conditions. Are we all ready to love with such love, without imposing our conditions on our loved ones, our children? Unfortunately no! Often our good intentions are dictated by our own views and statements, we rarely ask ourselves the question: “How important is this to our loved ones? Do they share our views on life? And even more so when it concerns our children. After all, we are adults and we know better! We have more experience! And we only want the best for them! Remember yourself as a child, did you always believe your parents when they did their own thing and claimed that everything that happens to us will benefit us? I doubt! And why? Yes, because as a child grows up he becomes an individual, and he has his own views, his own experience, his own way of self-expression. Alas, it does not always coincide with our opinion... And it is precisely because of this that misunderstanding, resentment, hidden sadness, etc., arise. But this can be avoided! Try to ask the questions completely sincerely: “What is valuable and significant for my child at the moment? Why exactly does this matter to him?” Or the second option: write yourself a letter on behalf of your child. Having previously allowed him to trust you. Enter this image and write without stopping, until your head is completely empty. I’m sure the answer will surprise you! Firstly: you will learn something new about your child, secondly: look at the situation from a different angle, and thirdly: trust will arise between you, the same trust that some unknowingly gain over the years. And don’t be afraid to be frank in response! After all, it is at such moments that that unconditional love that we talked about earlier either arises or awakens. Good luck and unconditional love!