. In one of the groups on Facebook, a woman asked a question: - how to respond to your husband’s questions when his wife goes on vacation with her friends? Do I need to report where, with whom and what time she will come? This post caused many conflicting responses. One man made me want to answer him. I decided to share our correspondence with you. Michael writes (scanned in full): “The scourge of our time is the feminist movement, wrapped in the “brilliant label of the fight for women’s rights.” :(At times, it seems that all these feminists are called upon to destroy the remnants of the “institution family.” It’s impossible for a husband to ask his wife questions, for a husband to be interested in his wife’s “personal” life, for a husband there’s a lot of stuff that’s nizzzy..., nizzly..., nizzly! A husband can only be a purse and plow, “earning money” for his wife’s needs. A husband can satisfy and indulge his wife’s whims!!! What else can a husband do from the point of view of an ardent supporter of feminism? “My response to his SMS: - Men, forgive us all women for our claims, grievances, demands. I’ll tell you one little story. When I was a child, I saw how a 16-year-old girl was “twisting” a boy. I asked her: “Why are you killing his faith in love and female fidelity?” She laughed at me. After this conversation, I felt twice as painful. learned to be strong, brave, smart in the eyes of a girl. But... Obviously, after such an ordeal, he became rude to the female sex. But maybe such women come into your male life in order to learn to distinguish the wheat from the chaff? After all, you so often fall for the bare shoulder, for coquetry. Forgive me, but more often than not a man is even ready to break himself, but will do everything for the sake of a slutty woman, and the one who keeps love and loyalty to you becomes insipid, boring, and you look for adventure and find it. Many only realize in their 80s and 90s that if they survive, feminists, gigolos, aggressors, etc. are born for a reason. Having worked as a psychologist for many years, I see the root of almost any trouble - adultery. Any child in his young childhood needs to see love between his parents. Otherwise, there is pain in their soul, which develops into aggression, and then hatred, then into the desire for revenge. Look around. There is an internal conflict in everyone, and it has a root - this is our reaction to relationships in the family. Take care of the united heart of your family. Take care of your child's heart. He has to go to life. After all, even creating a business is difficult for many; everyone is afraid of betrayal. I think you can guess where the roots of this fear come from. Do not create a family if there is no mutual love - this is a prison in which your children will then live! With respect to everyone, Tatyana Obraztsova. #psychologistobrazcova_psy #feminists #infidelity #love #sex #family # education #psychology #love