So, let's continue to talk about the needs of a man that were not satisfied in marriage, which led to the man deciding to leave the family. In this article I wrote about all the needs for in general: Why did the husband leave the family? And in these articles about what to do if the first of the six needs is not satisfied: How to return your husband: provide him with a sense of security How to return your husband if he cannot forgive your betrayal? Today we will talk about the need in novelty and adventure. Failure to satisfy this particular need most often leads to the fact that a man finds a mistress, and may even decide to leave for her completely. Yes, you can often hear that the husband has gone to the left, since everything is new with his mistress, passion is boiling, but the wife is already bored and everything has become mundane. What to do? Is it even worth competing with your mistress and playing with her by her rules? Don’t panic! There’s no need to urgently run out and get a new hairstyle, dye your hair and buy a new dress and sex toys. The option of changing your external image will only work if you really completely forgot about yourself and walked around with an unkempt head in a stretched tracksuit. Then yes, a change of image will be beneficial. In any case, the novelty of being with your mistress will also soon wear off and everyday life will come. If you lure your husband precisely with the novelty of sexual adventures, then maybe he will return when his mistress gets fed up, but you, in turn, will not be able to compete endlessly with new girls, since you are not a robot and come up with endlessly new bed tricks, and you dye your hair every day You won’t be able to. It’s better to take a closer look at your usual patterns of communication and behavior. Have you played too much at being the mother of the family? Have you fallen deeply into the role of a housekeeper? Are you stuck in the role of an eternally offended infantile girl? Or maybe the sawfish in you is itching? Or do you bring your boss home from work? Are you suffocating with maternal care and control? Remember your normal day, when you were still living next to your husband, what roles predominated in your communication with your husband? Analyze for a few days: which roles predominate and in what proportion? It often happens that we get stuck in 1-2 roles and our communication becomes monotonous. Life turns into Groundhog Day. Look at your roles and think, what roles are you lacking in the first place? Where and in what roles is there an influx of energy and emotions, but at the same time these roles are forgotten? Allow yourself to experience different roles. Do this for yourself, and not to prove something to your husband. And if you feel that you are stuck in some role and there are no resources for other roles, then I can help you find these resources and reveal the different facets of a woman in yourself so that your life shines with different colors, regardless of whether your husband returns or not.