What will people say about me? 🤔It seems to me that these are very common thoughts that spin in the head of, perhaps, every person who has either decided to start something new or change something. The fear of making a bad impression greatly complicates our lives, affecting personal, friendly and business relationships. relationships. It’s as if you are telling the world and others - I’m not important. My desires are not important. I would rather make sure that everyone loves me, so that no one thinks badly of me, in order to impress and please other people. I will put myself and my emotions on the back burner, because all my support is external. And It doesn’t matter at all what we’re talking about now: about divorce, about a new profession, about managing Instagram*, or about changing your hairstyle. No matter what you do, people will always talk about you. They will always consider it necessary to speak out about you. But this is not because there is something wrong with you or because you did something wrong. No! This is how the human psyche works. 🧠We all always discuss each other. We just do it differently. Someone will talk about you from the position: “Oh, smart girl, cool! Go ahead". And someone will say: “Ugh! Why did you do this, it was better before, where are you going anyway?” The question is different, why do you choose to listen to the negative between the first and second decisions? You are following a very simple pattern. Learn to always choose whose opinion you listen to and whose opinion you take into account, just like you choose an outfit for an event. By what criteria do you do this? 1. The outfit must be appropriate.2. It should decorate you 3. You should like it. Going into something new is always scary also because the brain has no experience of such situations. But the only way to grow and develop is to go into your fear. Because there are a lot of our desires behind it 🤍The same goes for public opinion. Take on what you like ❤And how are you, dear friends, doing with such fear? Are you still afraid of what people will think of you?* Instagram is owned by Meta, which is recognized as an extremist organization in Russia.