This phrase, which has long become a catchphrase, is a symbol and commemoration of the end of a relationship. Why do people who part with such a phrase take “sin on their souls” and shift all the blame onto themselves? Everything is very simple - this is another attempt to be good in the eyes of another person. Let's look at this and a few other typical tricks that people resort to in order to remain good. So, the top reasons for breaking up are headed by the phrase in the title. A person comes up with some kind of cover reason like “I’m tired, I need to think and understand myself” and announces it to his partner. However, the fact is that he is even afraid to tell himself that he, for example, has stopped loving his partner, or has lost attraction or interest in him. After all, if you admit this, then you need to talk about it, discuss it, and perhaps find some kind of solution. Most often, people are not so much afraid of hurting another as they are not willing to feel guilty later. In order not to fall in the face of others, some prefer not to break off the union, even if it has long outlived its usefulness. Some already hate their partner so much that they happily await news of cheating. After all, then you can leave with peace of mind as the injured party, and the “bad guy” will be the second one. And sometimes it happens that, not daring to tell the truth, a person begins to deliberately, in a disguised way, push his soul mate to show his worst side. Then you can leave with a clear conscience! You can simply run away without explanation. There are no risks or losses, and nothing needs to be said. Only on the “other” side there remains a person who will torment what he did wrong and suffer, since the unknown and such neglect always hurt more than open criticism and accusations. There is also a category of martyrs - they always wait for everything to work out in their relationship . This is about those who suffer from various forms of relationship addictions. There is no longer any love there, however, these people see only this format of relationships and proudly bear their cross all their lives. The main thing is that they are good, how can a martyr be bad? The main problem with such strategies is that they lead to even greater resentment, pain and anger of the partner. Who will be pleased to learn that he was abandoned, hiding behind general phrases? Any normal person would like to know the true reason for the separation, because this will allow him to avoid repeated mistakes in the future. Have you encountered such scenarios in life? What do you think – is it necessary to always tell the truth or sometimes you can embellish it to make the breakup go smoother? Sign up for a consultation: WhatsApp, Telegram +7 913 380-83-42Skype: as3808342Learn to manage your emotions!💪