A close woman often seems like an adversary, attacking something important and valuable to you, making you want to defend yourself. However, the defense and, sometimes, the subsequent breakup with such a woman becomes even more painful and difficult. The reason for this is that inside you feel that she is not attacking your true self, but that deceitful and weak part of you that seeks to be liked or feels guilty. Perhaps it is this side that opposes your woman and - at the same time - you yourself. Your woman, without consciously understanding this, but sensing with some special, feminine “sniff” the falsity in you and in your relationship, attacks precisely these lies, weakness and cowardice . She directs her destructive energy at something that you, in fact, are not and never were. And this can be perceived as a betrayal. What if you allow yourself to trust this attack, trust your woman and feel that her attack, in fact, is salvation - the salvation of both your relationship and you? Maybe, instead of denial and confrontation, it is worth rethinking the situation and trying to see in this attack an opportunity for growth and overcoming internal conflicts? Maybe in a conflict with your woman there is an opportunity to achieve harmony within yourself and accept yourself as you are, with all your weaknesses and shortcomings? But this is provided that the woman is YOURS. Because by letting NOT YOUR woman into you and your destiny, you will most likely fall into a trap, the price for getting out of which will be years and years of life and pain without hope of escape. And one day you will either die or run away. YOUR woman also brings pain. But, burning in this pain, you do not burn, but are melted, purified, come to life, only lies and fear are burned, which you considered part of yourself and which YOUR woman is furiously destroying. But in order to find and recognize YOUR woman, you need to find and recognize yourself . It’s impossible otherwise. By pretending not to be yourself, playing masks, you will attract strangers into your life - people, situations, friends, women... Hamlet, and with him Shakespeare, are absolutely right - the only question is always this…