Step-by-step work on yourself:1. You acknowledge a problem, a dissatisfaction, a desire to change your present life or yourself. That is, you admit that you are not satisfied with everything in your real life. And be honest with yourself, no one will hear you except yourself))).2. You form a desire, what you want to replace or what to get as a result, and even if at first the picture is not entirely clear. The main thing is to go in the direction of desire, and not to run away from the present in an unknown direction.3. You accept your present and yourself as you are right here and now. Without this step it is impossible to change anything. Stop living somewhere out there in your imagination. Recognize everything as it is and form your model.4. You find in the world's diversity what you like, what you want to attract into your life. Expand the boundaries of your consciousness. The comfort zone created in the process of life is not the limit of dreams and possibilities. Don’t create your own boundaries and limitations—that’s where the problems come from.5. Compare yourself to people worse off. It’s not all that bad, isn’t it? Now, look at those who are an example for you. Are they Neonderthals? Or from Mars? Or do they have 4 hands and 48 hours a day? No? So you can do it too.6. If you don’t want to contact a specialist, then delve into your past files yourself and find there judgments, beliefs and emotional frames that contradict your desires. Eliminate internal conflicts and make a plan to achieve your goals. And, let's get down to business.7. The reptilian task of the brain is to survive. And he will first of all implement this task, and only then fulfill your desires. If any judgment or situation in the past caused you pain, the brain will block actions in every possible way, in the direction of even the minimal possibility of obtaining a similar state, since this makes you depressed, causes pain, that is, you feel bad. That is WHY it is important to eliminate negative beliefs, and only then engage in affirmations, visualization and the formation of a new model of the world. For all questions that arise, you can always get my opinion. Skype: alenauspex, but formulate your question clearly. To the questions: how to become happy or how to become successful? You will receive the appropriate answer - just choose it))). Believe in yourself and trust life, live the way you want, don’t put it off until tomorrow and don’t think that it will resolve on its own))). Subscribe to a series of webinars on self-knowledge.