“It is more effective to accept life as it is - unpredictable and spontaneous. Look the circumstances in the eye, rather than give in to senseless regrets about unfulfilled dreams and turmoil in the moment to resolve the situation.” There are periods in life when a red traffic light is constantly on on your way. You can't move from your spot. Everything does not go according to plan: constant failures, betrayals, misunderstandings. You start rushing around and trying to fix everything, but this only complicates everything. In the chaos, you can jump out onto the road in front of a “car” that will blow you away. Everything slows down and slows down, as if a person finds himself in a “red corridor on the road.” He has to hit the brakes more and more often. At these moments you are broken and there seems to be no enlightenment. And any attempt to achieve a certain result in a situation ends in failure. “But, you need to urgently decide what to do, what should I do” - these thoughts are tangled in a tangle in my head. All this just makes things worse and you lose faith. At such moments, a person gives up or, even worse, gets into trouble. So how do you get into the “green corridor?” If you slow down, look at your problems from a different angle and relax, then everything will calm down. Internal throwing does not lead to results, but only to imbalance. It happens that a traffic light shouts stop at us not to punish us, but to detain us in the face of danger. Perhaps you shouldn’t cross to that side of the street right now. Think about this the next time you are nervously rushing around in a panic. Perhaps you were not following your own path, but someone else's path. It will only lead you to disappointment. Exhale and wait calmly or turn in a different direction. You will see how everything will work out on its own. And then, in a calm state, you will drive along your safe road of life, and on the way you will see red traffic lights less and less often. Sign up for a consultation +7 926 355-89-28 (WhatsApp, Telegram) Anastasia Borodina, Your personal psychologist