From the author: A smile will make everyone brighter! Merry Christmas! And who cares which one :-)) Secret 7 Metaphor and humor are the shortest path to understanding One of my friends, due to her husband’s attention deficit, once told him: “Darling, I feel like an abandoned football field, where people come only occasionally play.” So what do you think? He took her to a restaurant! And they had a nice romantic evening. Please note, no reproaches! After all, they awaken a feeling of guilt, behind which, as a rule, lies unmanifested aggression. Do you need it? Or another practical tool is a good joke, told, as they say, on time. It is no coincidence that so many Jewish jokes relate specifically to family relationships. A successful metaphor leads to insight and a new understanding of this or that complexity in a relationship, and most importantly - quickly! Why does this happen? It is directed through images to feelings. And this is the shortest path to understanding the problem. Since childhood, starting with fairy tales, we have become accustomed to understanding images. Dear women, ladies! It is not at all necessary to say everything “head-on” - this is not from the feminine essence. Our guys are ready to receive frontal attacks only on male territory. They cannot behave the same way with women. This is a taboo for them, so don’t rock the boat! PS Remember the words of Baron Munchausen: “I understand what your trouble is. You are too serious. An intelligent face is not yet a sign of intelligence... All stupid things on earth are committed with this facial expression. Smile,... Smile!»