From the author: sexologist-psychotherapist, family psychologist. expert on television programs, member of the professional psychotherapeutic league, master of NLP, educational psychologist, specialist in the eastern version of neuroprogramming, specialist in personal well-being and family relationships, trainer, coach, esoteric psychotherapist. The author of more than 500 articles on a variety of problems, which you can see by looking at the *articles* section and, probably, this will already help solve your problem. The author of more than 100 training programs, as you can see by visiting my video channel on YouTube and typing “Afanasyeva Lilia” For modern women, the problem of anorgasmia is very relevant. And if in the old days it was somehow not customary to talk about this, now ladies turn their sexual problems to sexologists with their wives. psychotherapists and family psychologists, especially since it is completely solvable. Often girls are in a certain misconception; they do not consider an orgasm from clitoral stimulation to be a full-fledged orgasm, and this is completely in vain, because for some this is the most preferable type of female orgasm. And often, in order to move towards the same vaginal orgasm, you need to do some work in this field. Yes, special techniques are used here to achieve the desired vaginal orgasm, but you have to try hard for this, and then you will probably achieve success. But there is no guarantee here, because the female orgasm is influenced by many factors, and the main thing depends on the lady herself. Sometimes a woman considers herself inferior in terms of achieving orgasm, or frigid (a term that has been used before). And when psychological problems are added to women’s sexual problems, for example, beliefs about men, the situation becomes more complicated. And here there is not only no libido, but often there is no desire to build a relationship with a man and find a mate. This is what I would like to talk to you about today. I think that many of you have heard this more than once, and perhaps it affected someone personally, like, for example, my client from Moscow, a 30-year-old girl. Time passed, I finally wanted to get married and have children. But somehow everything didn’t work out: either the man didn’t suit him, or she didn’t match him. And now, she realized that all this was not without reason, and there was probably some kind of problem behind it. And so it turned out. I have already previously worked with her as a psychologist-sexologist and psychotherapist. I would like to say that my client has many different karmic and psychogenetic stories that we are solving. And now the existing problem had its roots in the distant past, when the girl was not even alive. The first thing the client remembered was the following: “in my family, somehow, there was always a problem in this regard. For example, my grandmother and grandfather were *not a couple*, my mother and father were the same, and something is wrong with me...” I helped her enter the first problematic memory, and she saw the story of a girl who belonged to her feminine gender . The girl was Armenian, and the hair was Russian. They got married, but the marriage did not work out. Further, it turned out that the parents were initially against such a marriage, but the girl was wayward, she often conflicted with her parents, and then she married them to spite them. We changed the situation, giving it rationality, new behavior and understanding, which often *to spite* someone, it turns out – to spite ourselves. And as a result of such work, we removed from my client the hereditary belief that said: “it didn’t work out,” filling it with a new one: “compatibility in a couple.” Then came the story that the client’s mother told, she said that her mother-in-law was against their marriage, and often said: “You are not a match for us, we pulled you out of the mud...” From here the girl received (based on her mother’s negative experience) the conviction: “I, too, may not be a match for someone.” Now she has come to the realization that her grandmother at that time would not have liked any daughter-in-law, since she loved her son very much and idolized him.…»