1) “Caring” man, or “man-father” A partner who is experienced and attentive to the spiritual world of a woman, who knows how to win her over with protective courtship. In the game of love, he greatly values ​​women’s tenderness and vulnerability, and expects admiration for his life experience and skill. “Infantile” “woman, or “woman-daughter” The ideal of this woman is a kind and experienced man, well adapted to life, usually older than her in age. In the presence of such a man, she feels like a little girl, dependent on him in almost everything. In a love game preference is given to the psychological factor: sincere conversation, relaxing music, creating conditions for relaxation. Above all, he values ​​condescension and care. In these relationships, the emphasis is on care and peaceful, harmonious relationships. The “father” man is kind, caring, attentive, and it is because of these qualities that he often does not rise very high on the career ladder. He may be a mid-level manager. A “father” man may admire the fact that “she came home from work, I massaged her feet, gave her tea and covered her with a blanket so that she could rest.” Men of this type are often psychologists, healers, etc. d.2) “Caring” woman, or “woman-mother” Tends to take care of her male partner. She is attracted to weak but intelligent men who obey her in everyday affairs. She is pleased to protect, support, and encourage them. Such qualities of character, which in the mass consciousness do not evoke respect for males, are forgiven by this woman or considered quite acceptable. An “infantile” man, or a “man-son” is dependent, naive in everyday life. affairs, expects business and emotional support from a woman. Involuntarily emphasizes his neglect of attention, ruined abilities, inability to cope with life’s struggles. Respects women’s experience and responsiveness to his problems. In these relationships, the emphasis is on the fact that life is very difficult for an “infantile” man in “this cruel world”, no one understands him, and the mission of the woman “mother” is to save him, believing in his great destiny. These men can “make their way in life” due to their talent - often they are artists, classical music composers, poets , i.e. people are talented in their field, but not very adapted to family life. 3) Man “Aggressor” Has a tendency to forcibly take possession of a woman. In love play he likes to demonstrate wrestling. He can allow himself to be rude, sometimes causing women pain, both physical and moral. Expects a woman to submit to force. “Victimized” woman The ideal of such a woman is a physically strong man, reminiscent of supermen from American action films. She wants to experience his strength, resist his onslaught, feel like a victim. In love games, she prefers different forms of confrontation that kindle the passion of her partner Women of this type sometimes have inherent masochistic traits. True, not all of them are aware of this. An example of such a relationship: Nikita Mikhalkov and his wife, Vladimir Zhirinovsky and his wife. In these relationships, the emphasis is on the status of the man and the woman’s ability to realize herself in society at his expense. The incentive that drives the “aggressor” man through life is status: achievement a certain degree of career ladder, a career, a high material standard of living, and he achieves this in any way - through connections or forceful pressure. He is not always attentive to a woman, sometimes he can download something rude, since the main thing for him is his fighting qualities, but for her, everything is compensated by his strength, the influence he has on the environment and the pleasure from the material level that she has next to him. For a man who is an “aggressor”, his opinion is important, so only a woman who unconditionally accepts all of him can be next to him solutions. This is the essence of a “victimized” woman - “who would solve all my problems for me.” But “victimized” women are not stupid women. Often these are women