According to statistics, there are now as many single people as there are married people. There are couples who experience difficulties in communication: partners often suffer humiliation and devaluation from the other, there is no proper respect. At the same time, the relationship continues solely for the sake of “preserving the family.” And I know single people who have become disillusioned with their marriage, who live “a mansion” and do not want to burden their lives with an extra “challenge” in the form of a relationship. What do you think is better: to endure and be in a relationship at any cost or not to pull ballast in the form of a family and “live for yourself”? To answer this question, you must first of all understand why we get married and interact with representatives of the opposite sex. As a rule, when entering into close relationships , we want to be happy, share joy with another person, speak freely, show up, feel heard, receive warmth, support, care. And if this is not the case in a relationship, the main meaning of marriage is lost. And if a person has also repeatedly experienced negative experiences in building relationships, then the institution of family itself loses all value for him - hence the large number of divorces and a huge percentage of people living alone. What to do? Very often, relationships suffer not because of the lack of love, but namely, a misunderstanding of the psychology of the opposite sex. If you are not heard and valued in a relationship, it is important to learn the rules of effective communication, because often the partner himself does not understand that he is causing pain. It is necessary to understand the psychology of the opposite sex, because a man and a woman are different from each other: they have different values, needs, desires, which in most cases greatly complicates communication. My name is Sergey Bessonov, I am a practicing psychologist, I help women gain confidence and ease in relationships with a man, thanks to building healthy communication. I will take only three women with problems in family life or suffering from a lack of a “strong male shoulder” for a transformational diagnostic session, during which we will look at what is preventing us from building healthy relationships and will prescribe the first 3 steps towards a relationship dreams.______Your family psychologist BessonovSergey.rf Sign up for a consultation t.me/psycholog_bessonov