I dedicate this post to the brave women who have found the courage to overcome resistance and fear of the unknown to face the truth about their situation and why they have a duty in their lives. This is one of the most difficult topics; in fact, we do not recognize debts, but at the same time we are included in them and pour our life energy into them. This is the paradox. You need to have the strength to take the risk and face this paradox. There is a lot of strength and energy in our family field, but we often succumb to social patterns and turn away from the resources that we have from birth. During the exercises, Elena received message after message from her ancestors - and they contained a call to action, to new steps. Irina in general, for the first time I made constellation diagnostics, for the first time I touched primary feelings, for the first time I looked at the figure of Duty, and in the end I said: “I have hope!” Thoughts, feelings, fears that the participants carried in their lives were manifested in the Field, and were for them an insurmountable obstacle, but in fact they were adopted. It was an even greater surprise for me when, looking at their situation from the third point, Irina and Elena said, as if complementing each other, how comfortable the point of Pain was. Rarely does anyone dare to openly admit this: “What are you talking about, I really really want to change the situation!” - they always assure me, continuing to sit comfortably on the fifth point. “The pain is familiar,” Elena accurately noticed. I don’t want to part with her, I don’t want to leave her. On the one hand, Pain seems to protect against some new actions and changes that could lead to another disappointment or loss, and on the other hand, it shares with something even greater that can be in life - high income, business, influence. It is important to see that you yourself hold on to your Pain, and then you regain responsibility and your right to Choice - either continue to hold on to the Pain with all your might and share yourself with Success and Happiness, or take steps towards your Goal and your Path. Brave women rule!