Are you familiar with the expression “We all come from childhood”? I think yes. These words are said in appropriate and inappropriate ways, but do we think about what they mean? “We all come from childhood,” the famous writer, author of “The Little Prince” Antoine de Saint-Exupéry once said and added: “All adults first were children, only few of them remember about it...” A person can forget a lot, but sometimes the most exciting and pleasant ones remain from childhood memories. But our psyche is structured in such a way that memories live with us not only in consciousness, we remember them, but also in the subconscious, where they are hidden for the time being. Sometimes when choosing a life partner or friend, we think that we first rely on superficial data - appearance, sense of humor or sociability. In fact, you react not only to a beautiful face for you, but also to what is hidden inside a person, his personality. It is this something that attracts you and forces you to continue the relationship, and then leave it in a negative scenario. But nothing is impossible, many prominent figures in history have said this, and not everything is as bad as it seems. Our unconscious is not as mysterious and unpredictable as it might seem; we can come to an agreement with it, lift the veil and understand ourselves better. So, knowing your personality, you can begin to understand what exactly our particular reactions in communication are connected with, how you can change these reactions and accordingly change our traits and stop being attracted to people who are not suitable for us and discern your soulmate in those people who would pass by. Anyone who has been to a maternity hospital and seen babies lying next to each other usually has difficulty distinguishing them. A nurse, after spending a couple of hours with newborns, can say with confidence who is who. It is infant genetics that influence different infant responses. Then the baby begins to adapt to the world through the parents’ reactions to his needs, and his character is formed. Parents care for their child, repeating the principles of their family. And it’s good if it was a loving, friendly, good family... We are born with a certain set of reactions that can be changed, but what is put into us during the upbringing process is much more difficult to change.