After all, in order for the relationship to continue not only to exist as a fact, but to be alive, sooner or later they will have to be clarified. That is, it may be a point of conflict, but a relationship is a dynamic structure in which different people participate, each with their own vision, experience and perception. It’s just that today conflict = quarrel and the risk of breaking the relationship, all this again comes due to disturbed types of attachment, this is the base. And if we remember what conflict is, then it will be clear that in relationships, conflict can become a point of rapprochement, clarification, development, better understanding of each other and a place of clearer vision of the other. Without conflicts, we cannot be closer to each other. Here the form of this conflict becomes very important. (Constructive or destructive). As you can guess, constructive means pronouncing words through your mouth, without emotional involvement or at least with minimal. And avoiding clarification is more likely to turn out to be a time bomb that will explode when you yourself did not expect and maybe even You won’t understand why now. But it will be more difficult to find where the legs are coming from, because you could have already put a lot of things into this box of silence with good intentions “so that there is no conflict.” To what I wrote above. These fears of breaking up relationships during conflicts just don’t happen. turn it off and they can actually be there, since most people have a disturbed type of attachment and someone can really avoid contact in this way. But here it is important to work on your stability, which is what we do in therapy. Essentially, we gradually build relationships, learn build them differently, gaining a new, safer and healthier experience with a person who is ready to build a relationship with you and knows how to do this due to his professional skills and experience, including his therapy, with whom you can do this, clarify, share, try differently. And having developed this skill, bring this experience into your life. The ability to withstand conflict and get closer, not to avoid contact - this is a skill and experience that can be gained in therapy, and later bring it into everyday life. You can sign up for a session by writing to me on WhatsApp or Telegram