Many of us postpone the implementation of our plans indefinitely, and it often happens that we never begin to fulfill what we want. Then circumstances change and it’s no longer the case, or they simply forget, push it into the depths of the subconscious. But most people prefer to stay in their gray life and complain about it, without taking any action, making efforts on themselves. What does this mean for you? You do not fulfill your desires. You think about them, but when the time comes to do something, you give your doubts, your laziness the opportunity to guide you. Or you listen to your surroundings and do not realize your dreams. If you listen to relatives and friends, then you are not living your life. If you give up your desires, then in your life there will be fewer difficulties that you will have to overcome in order to fulfill them, but there will also be less joy. For example, you work as an accountant, you have the appropriate education, but you want to be an illustrator of children's books. And as soon as you stutter that you are tired of your job, going to the office from 9 to 18, your parents and brothers and sisters tell you, “Are you crazy? You have a stable, well-paid job. Don’t even think about it.” And you continue to go to the hated office, get up at 7 am. And discontent is growing. And it is very possible that it will result in some kind of disease. Sometimes it’s easier to leave everything as it is and be dissatisfied with your life than to change something. After all, you will have to get a new education, take illustrator courses, rebuild your life, give up some entertainment and trips, because at first there will be no money. Many people prefer to complain that not everything is in order in their family, that their relationship with their husband not the same, but they are not going to change. After all, it’s easier to say that not everything is all right with your husband, that he is irresponsible, unaffectionate, than to start working on yourself: to become an interesting woman, watch your speech towards your husband, go to trainings, go to a psychologist, start cooking better, more do for the family. You decide to run in the morning, but in the morning you really want to sleep and you postpone your runs until tomorrow. This leads to promises made to oneself not being kept. Confidence and self-esteem are directly related to whether you deliver on what you set out to do in front of others and yourself. If you know that if you make a promise to yourself, set a goal for yourself, you will definitely fulfill it, then you have great faith in yourself. And if you constantly break promises to yourself, then you become insecure. Because the next time you say to yourself: “You should stop eating sweets at night,” then in your own head you will answer, “Yeah, of course... Words, words.” Also, thinking about your desires, you spend a lot of energy . Let me give you an example: you decided to wash your autumn shoes and put them in the closet, because winter has come and you wear winter boots, and you want to free up the hallway space from excess shoes. If you did this right away, then everything is fine, but if you put it off, then every time you look at these boots, you will remember that you must put them away. And it may turn out that boots are not the only thing that needs to be done. You will come across your work that needs to be framed and hung on the wall, a dirty door that needs to be washed, books that you have been wanting to give away, curtains that you need to change. And a thousand such little things can occupy your head. And instead of giving space to new projects, new events in your life, you chew such mental cud that you need to do this, that... The way out of this is so simple. Write a list of everything you plan to do and methodically begin to implement its points. If your desires are more complex and you don’t know how to make them come true, you need to find someone who knows how. If you want to start your own business and don't know where to start, you need to find a coach who knows how or a businessman who already has a business. If you want to change