This question is quite common among my clients and subscribers. And here it doesn’t really matter what exactly, be it an increase in income or spiritual development. In general, in recent times, I am pleased to observe that people have begun to pay more attention to their development, awareness, psychological development, this cannot but rejoice. Usually girls They ask something like the following question: “My husband/man doesn’t want anything, doesn’t strive for anything, isn’t interested in anything. What do i do?". First, let's look at what you absolutely shouldn't do: Demand. Many women follow this path, but it is a dead end. He is an adult man and has the right to decide what to do and what not to do. Humiliate. Insult, thereby you destroy yourself, then why are you even with this person? Make constant claims. There is no sense, discontent accumulates on both sides and at the same time they only close the person even deeper. Organize a race. In a family, it is important that you are partners, not rivals. Accumulate discontent. This never works at all, because sooner or later you will lose your temper and say a lot of unnecessary things. Here's what can help: Clarifying the situation. Sit down and calmly discuss who is not happy with what, how each of you sees your future and the further development of the relationship. Support. Not to be confused with doing it for him, this point is extremely important. It’s always worth saying kind words, but looking for him, say a new job, is clearly not. Recommend, offer. You can always tell what interesting book you read or offer to go to some educational event, but remember that the choice is yours! Positive motivation. Tell him how his life will become better, what he will gain by mastering new practices, gaining new experience. Give him the opportunity to prove himself. All by yourself and one for all, this position often takes away any initiative from those around you. Sincere faith and respect for your loved one. No comments here. And it is important to understand everyone has their own path of development, some need more time, and some may not want to move anywhere at all, and this is also a choice that must be accepted and respected. Links to my social networks, where by subscribing, you can get acquainted with useful and exciting information: https://vk.com/psiholog.zelinaINSTGR_LINK