From the author: You will always be attractive and most compatible with the person who is as happy and positive as you. Rule No. 5 Similar self-concepts are attracted and most compatible. You are always you will be attractive and most compatible with the person who is as happy and positive as you are. For a harmonious relationship, a common level of relationship between optimism and pessimism is necessary. “Negatives” are also attracted to each other and are capable of long-term relationships - family, children, affection for each other. The same goes for optimists. Take a test: give your companion a mark on a 100-point scale: how long he has been an optimist and how long he has been a pessimist. Also test yourself and compare. You will find that you are most comfortable with someone who has the same percentage of optimism and pessimism. If one in a couple is more positive than the other, then all sorts of conflicts and misfortunes befall them. Most divorces are due to an imbalance of concepts. We are delayed in our development due to the negativism of our spouse, and life deceives us. Rule No. 6 “Good communication” is the first condition for success in marriage. Both partners must be on the same wavelength. They reach the same conclusions on the same issue. The main reason for failed relationships is poor communication. The partners do not understand each other and argue about any matter. Everyone is convinced that they are right, without realizing it. Article continued...