Dedicated to all wives who have experienced a lack of attention from their husbands! I asked a woman happy with her family life: “What is the secret of your long-term (30 years) relationship?” And she said - “My husband is a very attentive person, he treats me with care and always worries about me and my daughters. I’m just lucky to have him!...” And, how often, I hear complaints during family consultations clients to inattention on the part of the spouse, to the lack of desired emotional intimacy. - “My husband constantly reproaches me for the fact that he earns money and doesn’t owe me anything else!...” Yes! Men often don't take into account that their attention is also an important resource in a relationship! Money, houses, apartments, travel are material resources and they are also important. But, for a woman, attention is the main resource! The most valuable of all! Caring always comes from attentiveness! Of course, women can also be inattentive in relationships. Usually, this can manifest itself in a lack of care - delicious food is not prepared, shirts are not ironed, the floor is not washed... etc. And a man certainly suffers from such inattention..., but in such a situation it is always necessary to remember that the answers inside us!... Mutual claims have never made anyone happy! This is always a path to nowhere!...Ask yourself - “What can I do, correct in myself, in my character, in order to improve the situation??? What qualities can I improve? And what can I learn from this experience? Am I attentive to my wife? If you ask yourself - “Why do I need a family?”, then the answer should be - “For self-improvement, for the development of personal qualities!” - Because only in family relationships, a person is able to grow and evolve! , don’t degrade, this is important... I would be happy to call attentiveness the younger sister of gratitude. Because only attentive people are able to practice gratitude. They are able to take good care of their family and relatives. The ability to pay attention to loved ones is always appreciated! !! Practice mindfulness and you will be rewarded!!! All the best to you!!! - 89886723528